Learn to listen to your friends

A true friend is one who knows how to listen. If so far fail to keep your attention in a conversation or your mind "fleeing" to other ideas, here are some steps that will keep you in the eyes and ears you are destainuie.

1 Make eye contact

First, when a person asks for attention, interrupting other activities that would distract you from the conversation. Because it is an important issue, your attention should be directed to that which you speak.

Try to watch other's position. You can learn so many details about his state of mind. For example, that prevent you look in the eye may be a sign that the subject you angry enough. So, be prepared to interfere in critical moments.

2 Heading your attention to the conversation

It is time to pay attention to what you are communicating. Do not you let your thoughts to fly to your own problems. Take an exercise in focus and try to withhold as many details of the discussion. You want to meet with the same subject later and be placed in an awkward position because you dream to be open when, in fact, be careful.

3 Examine the said

Most times, people feel the need to destainuie would like to hear and think those who listen, an encouragement, advice or a compliment. Try to form an opinion about what you hear, considering also the personality that talk, how it behaves in certain situations and experiences that has gone.

It would be great if you managed to figure out what you want with you. He would like to interview some point during the discussions, or just needs someone to listen without making further comments?

4 Get rid of prejudices

Take information provided in a way as objective. What works great for you, it can be transformed into a disaster for someone else. Do not let your preconceptions to distort what you hear. Adopt an attitude as objective, based not only on their own experiences, but also on what you heard from other friends or close.

Try to visualize the situation and realize how you feel in that position. Remember that the outside is very easy to give advice, but when that experience certain feelings, can not remain as lucid.

5 Ask questions

Grab patience and try not to interrupt too often, especially when it comes to painful topics, where the first instinct is downloading tension. Otherwise you risk to interpret things wrong or even angry.

When you do not understand what was being discussed, it is time to interfere. Clarify the situation and prove thereby that you are interested in what you hear. To get closer and more at destainuie you are, formulates questions with the direct reference to what he felt when doing things.

6 Give feedback

Constant attention and interest vis-a-vis the discussion in which you were involved will help provide a very personal feedback. Try not to give answers classic already become cliches, because the guy next you will immediately give you account of lack of regard for his feelings and emotions. Give him to understand that listening and that related to those found.

The 10 Commandments of Sex's

5 of her, 5 of him:

Women:

1. Have no complex: Size does not matter, battery life yes!

Under the motto "Why take a whole pig for meat?" Club women disappointed by their partners penis, thank the man who invented the vibrator. Not only 'toy' it is a good sexual partner, but may be Carata anywhere, without (it) bored / tired / blame etc.. Etc.. Etc.

2. NOT treat a woman like an inflatable doll: It's cool to do it in acrobatic position, with the mention that "material" is mostly frail women and non-flexible, even when shaking like a bow under the pressure of fat.

I slammed into the wall not believing that cold concrete acts as an aphrodisiac and does not sit on furniture in the idea that a smooth surface can not jump chips by friction. I do not pluck the breasts and not push as if you discovered that the area between my legs is made of rubber. Understand that actresses are paid to the climax gems.

3. NOT wasting your 'seed' on 'dry land': if you insist on my face finish, be prepared for adverse reactions.

Do not do it without me know, that might be to temporarily blind or to regurgitez of reflex or drown and coughing at night when you sleep like a baby ... It is said that seminal fluid is excellent for skin. None commented, just as most women prefer to test all sorts of nonsense from trade odoriferous skin care. Nothing compares to the satisfaction of giving a lot of money on creams to firm and later finds that are not suitable.

4. NOT give lessons in style when you're completely naked, in compromising position: We have no problem with "doggy" but that now has his own style with this position ( "doggy style")?

"Goat" is not favorable position for the women posed in style. High heels 'of the Jimmy Choo' stands out best in the picture "legs".

5. Do not kill the passion: No, the terms "wash up", "Take the trash," "Do clean!" not part of the 'dirty language' that you like you use in bed.

Maybe accept 'dirty language' when I play the maid to bed, but I refuse to accept orders from you when you are tired, sad, stressed, etc. to menstruation.

Men:

1. Do not you do "chip carving: job with 'wiener' smacks of feminism. And if you have befriended so well with the vibrator, then the vibrator will be more than happy to lend your card or his car.

2. NOT regret you have not tried: It's cool to do it in the position of "missionary" with the mention that you are over 40 years, a boring job, 2-3 children and I struggle hemorrhoids.

3. You do not doubt: If you please close your eyes? If you close your eyes, I think you might you like? If you believe me, I?

4. NOT cry, if you see on the net: No one takes pictures while you have sex. Not even understand why you thought this ... Want to ask me something?

5. NOT tired doing nothing: Make up your mind! I think about sex every time I see and I could be confusing ...