The 11 commandments of modern dating

Did he failed to crack a guy and you want to conquer? Find out how going through "The 11 Commandments of Dating". You become a true master in the art of seduction and you'll do as you eat your hands from the first meeting. What should I do? Respect commands seduction and follow the steps proposed by the famous Patti Stanger, on Oprah Winfrey's show.

1. Answer phones in real time


If you received a call from him or SMS, answer them. Not the second two, if you're busy, but not in three days. Best time would be about 48 hours. More than likely you will find a 5 minute break during this time to return a phone call. Stop taking after you see in movies. That theory of romance sites on the big screen, according to which you must wait at least three days up to give a sign, no longer current. We live in rapidity century, and like you, and your claimant may have a busy schedule, which would allow it to stand to give you lessons you good manners.

2. Respect your promises


Show all the time you're a man of his word. If you schedule an appointment, do not cancel under any circumstances. Maybe only if you call 10 minutes before Brad Pitt and I asked the wife. It is important to give him to understand that it can rely on. A fiduciary is a man of his word. So if you made a program, take care to respect.

3. Let him take the first step


Probably you already seem old-fashioned, but continued to sit men enrolled DNA letters a span: Bruises. So you better hide your feminist side, take your eyes off "the deer lost in space" and let Him take the lead. He should call you first, you must remove it first in the city. It is an unwritten rule to be respected. If you think that is shy but you think it will take a century to make a move, you can give him a nudge. For example, invite him to organize a party on him but let him take you to the dance.

4. Leave the past in the past


That means: "no discussion about former". Do not want to have unnecessary headaches. Usually men are afraid of this former partner in their life, thinking that there may be feelings that still affect this relationship.

5. Be enthusiastic


Get involved in talks, ask him advice, be careful and enthusiastic in his words. He must be your point of interest and not that cute bartender who will serve. Very important, when you talk keeps eye contact, you will give to understand that you are with them not only this but also the mind.

6. Do not drink


Can be very tempting few glasses of wine before or during a meeting with a guy to relax. But that does not mean that implies something sexy. Try to limit. You drink a glass of alcohol within two but not more. Eventually you must keep your mind clear to focus and pay attention to the details meeting. Moreover, the image of women that just sticks longer find words is not at all attractive in a man's mind ... never.

7. Do not be materialistic


Not ask for money. Eventually is a potential boyfriend, not your bank loans. If you give him a gift, it is nice to accept. But do not let him never to give you money. After all do not want to give him the feeling that you maintain. Even if at first you think you help by paying your bills or rent, then it will feel like you should actually pay affection.


8. Behave like a real lady


Be polite. Get used to say "please" and "thank you". Do not swear and do not sit with legs sprawling guys. Most men prefer women courteous, well bred and cared for. Of course, this does not mean to let you wait for three o'clock to finish you with makeup. I give to understand that no price put on his time. There is an appropriate attitude for a lady.

9. Show appreciation and admiration


As for women, men love to be complimented. Remember this thing. You could, after a month will also see, was it surprising that a nice gesture to show your appreciation. Cook you dinner or if you know it's crazy in a special chocolate, give them a gift when you meet next time.

10. Do not fall in first night


Kisses, hugs are OK. But nothing more. Take it easy Well, get involved in the relationship first and then choose to have sex. An exchange of sexual favors before the relationship itself to ask this thing will start sautéing them before actually.


11. Avoid instant messaging


You are not at school, as such ceases to send all notes ... even if they are virtual. If you do it, chances that he call you instead to keep a virtual relationship with you are greater. Remember, a woman falls in love by hearing, not through sight. And as long as your hearing is still properly, stay away from your computer. Away from the chat area and goes into real life.

What men look at a partner

Whether it is physical, psychological, cultural or professional men, like women, have a particular pattern that you follow in choosing a life partner.

Formed after a series of clearly defined criteria, this model helps representatives of sex hard to realize that traits must meet their dream woman.

How does this and what you can do to get away as much of it, reveal to as reading "What are you looking for men in a partner.

Physical


Men feel attracted to women with forms. Most have it backwards when she has a few extra pounds and are less people looking foar sylphid those models that may be suspected of anorexia. Let's not forget, men sought to go beyond name, have heirs and for that they need a healthy woman whose body was being built to give birth to more children.

Very important in the construction of a woman, besides harmonious forms, is and "that something" that attracts the eyes. In terms of image, it must present a range of issues after puberty. In the mind of any man lies a dreamer who are in search of the features teenage Lolita. So, women have a childish look prevailed.

On the other hand, the media greatly affected the men's artistic sense in choosing a woman. Given this sketch deceptive beauty tools Photoshop, and some men - have already established a stereotype of beauty: high, with forms, with long hair, preferably black, blue eyes and white skin. However, most will choose to spend the rest of the life of a woman with normal, earthly, which have that "je ne sais quoi" drew on his face.


Psychological


On the psychological, men looking for in a friend that a woman can rely, to a mother who comforts her forehead when you feel powerless or who possesses a master of seduction art of love. But most importantly, a man seeking woman to love, she connected emotionally. Although it may seem odd, while for women, sex drive triggers emotional connection to a man that connection is a bridge leading to a long term relationship. Men want to be loved, appreciated, respected.

Cultural


Men are attracted to a woman secure in her independence and intelligence, but there are few people who choose to spend their remaining days with this type of woman.

Most men seek a woman to be intelligent, but not in it enough to be their superior, master it sufficiently enough to hold two times in three movements and family savings, but not so much to face only a beetle and puny in the bathroom. That Tarzan of the jungle, that Hollywood film Braveheart's ready to jump in any time to save the woman there latent in every male representative.

So, a woman who will choose it will be mostly lost that deer do not find the way home without her male that she-wolf and not able to raise only 50 offspring. Male pride will not let them be put to respect the wolf and that's because they make them feel that when the mother was caught walking on sweets in store.

Professional



In terms of career, the most common variants are:

1 Men with vision who prefer patriarchal casnicele ready to grow a crowd of children while they, the true pillars of the house, working for family maintenance.

2 Men who want a career woman next to her but, if possible, the same branch with them. Those who seek a business partner, a person to understand in terms of professional who can make the team for putting up a business or project.

Of the said before, you can easily see that a man seeking a woman not just sexual attraction, how often allow to discern, but a real accumulation of social and psychological traits. So, as the list prepared by a woman is long, the husband from her and not let less important to stay close and you should tick a good part of the items present on that sheet.

10 issues for a happy sex life

Often, sexual fulfillment is a test plan that you have to pass it. It's like in school: do you teach lessons, learn and then support the exam. But for students awarded a need to have all work done, right?

At the initiative of Oprah, Dr. Laura Berman has proposed a series of practical exercises designed to improve your sex life. Follow the "10 Themes for a happy sex life, do your homework so conscientious and guarantee your incendiary moments in the bedroom.

1. Love list


Often, jealousy and distrust in you and your partner may undermine such a relationship and create a lot of problems in the bedroom. What should I do to avoid it work?

Write on a piece of paper five things you love to your partner and put it and him to do the same. After you have finished, place you on the couch and read aloud what you said about each other. You will see that jealousy and distrust will disappear as if by magic.

Then, go in the bedroom and do so only at a different level ... hotter. Imagine a box that will put sexual fantasies. Incepti to talk about what you love, dreams and desires. The most interesting sexual fantasies will be placed on a sheet of paper and put in a shoe box that you always have one in the bedroom. If you feel that your sex life needs a revival, shoot lots of fantasy magic box and put it into application.

2. Moments in two


Perhaps you often happened that caught the everyday problems, to live with the feeling that you have not met with your husband for a long time, although living together. Barely have time to talk, let alone to have sex. But this does not sound too promising for your relationship. Need to pay attention and your personal life and to devote time "moments in two". Submit your like in a week to do at least these three things together with your boyfriend:

• A night out in two. May I ask the grandparents to take care of the children or talk to your friends to do the bone, schedule an evening in the city only with your husband.
• A night of sex. At least once a week, sets a hot night together with your boyfriend. You choose the day, should not be a fix, after all sex should not be set as a Swiss watch.
• Program the delights and tenderness. Dedica10-15 minutes a day to spoil moments, kissed and relaxed with the boyfriend ... anywhere else than in front of the TV.

3. Sexual therapy


Sometimes it happens that, whatever you do and however you try, your sex life to be still desirable. But you should not leave victim and resign ourselves to you.

Submit your as this week to seek a specialist in couples therapy. You should not hesitate or to think that resorting to such services only for those with very large problems. You want to know how well do tons emotional and psychic endorsed a discussion with someone ready to solve your problem.

4. Flirt


Flirting involves something fun and sexy, even if you're single or coupled. As such, this week should really flirting. If you seem like not addressed, trying to smile sexy type of coffee or on the street. If you're in a relationship, throw them on a hidden and sexy your partner when you are on the table, in the city.

5. Senses exploration


Vision, hearing, smell and touch sensory information that provides you increase your feelings. The same is true in terms of your sexuality.
Seeks to test these senses, and deepen them in this way descatusesti your primary sexual impulses.

6. Negativism ... no


Remove negativism of your mind and in your relationship. Write on a sheet of paper negative thoughts or experiences you have disappointment and throw paper in the garbage.

The aim is to build a healthy thinking, let me love you more and you never let negative emotions trapped. Remove bad karma and make space so positive thoughts.

7. Sex appeal requires investment


No matter age, gender or status of a relationship, your goal is to feel sexy and stay that way. Here some things you could do them in this regard:

• Invest in clothing items that make you feel sexy and attractive. Think that does not do it for you but for your partner.
• Buy your own set of lingerie "hot" forms that highlight your sexy
• Use a sensual fragrance and pays special attention to hair, nails and skin

Any offers you confidence and makes you feel downright irresistible to be passed on your list.

8. Fulfilling wishes


Try listening to your partner and make yourself heard. Concentrate and pay attention to details and body language. Get used to pay attention to what does the other, to hear him or just wait to you come to talk and turn to attack?

Give all your attention and your partner and trying when you listen to it and understand it. When you feel comfortable for both of us reached a threshold in question, tell him directly and without fear of rejection what you want from him. Whether it is a domestic load or a fantasy in the bedroom, it is important to say it aloud.

9. Letter of love


When did you last made your partner a love letter? And here not talking about e-mail or SMS, but a traditional letter, written on a sheet of paper with perfume smell that reminds me of first love in adolescence.

Put down your thoughts, be honest and let your imagination play. May tell why it is so important for you or your relationship is the place where you wake creeps when you meet, one thing is clear: you have to declare your feelings.

10. Affection in public


To show affection in public is a proof of love and tenderness. And eventually when you love and love you feel the need to share happiness with everyone, right?

So feel free and show your lover how much I love it when you walk in the park or go together to eat something. You should not feel embarrassed, as long as you do not do anything that would make an arrest, everything is allowed. Some kissing and flirting gestures are more than welcome.

Signs that he is the one

Butterfly in your stomach feel when you see him, your feet soften down when he get near you and you melt the longing of moments when you do not see him. "I love him", you say to you and still you can not help yourself not to go ... "Is he to be the one?".

Can never be sure that your boyfriend is that "the one" with whom to spend the rest of your life. But even if you can not be 100% sure of this, there are indications that you can show that you made the right choice. Take a look at those listed below and see if your lover is framed in profile "chosen".

• You are very attracted to each other. When you are together you will not break one of the arms of another. Physical attraction is an essential starting point in strengthening a long-term relationships, do not forget this thing.

• You are on the same wavelength in terms of personality. "Those who also gather, say a word. It will like a lot in terms of temperament is an important milestone when it starts a life in two.

• You share the same hobbies, same hobbies. Eventually it will argue on the remote just because one is mad about football and the other, processed by soap, not so good an idea. It is very important for a couple to have a similar vision of the entertainment and leisure. Of course this is not supposed to be perfectly suited to any but to be able to compromise and patience with other passions.

• You have the same scale of values, from a professional viewpoint. Your principles are similar, divided aceealasi goals and have the same scale of values with which you will succeed professionally.

• Submit constant effort to show how important you are for each other. The fire of passion to support not only in the first three months of a relationship. Evidence and gestures of love should exist between you and 80 years.

• You respect each other. Respect is a quality essential to strengthen a relationship of trust and long lasting. If you do not respect and do not comply, do not have no business together.

• You are compatible on the emotional side. She felt as love, He gave and received in the same way is the key to a happy relationship. Emotional connections are not about to let one die. And the more they are deeper and deeper, the more chances to lie on the relationship of years are larger.

Now that you found that it is "the one" not to sleep on the ear. A relationship is built and fortified everyday. We should not be rushed or before you dive. Analyze your situation every step and think carefully before making a decision, for it always take the appropriate one.

Amorous relationships at job

Early career youth often spend more time at work than at home. As a result, many women are young and single men who do not have time for meetings. Naturally, its search partner in the environment in which spin more often.

Single people think work is a friendly place to meet new people. Relationships at work are tempting for the job generally do not leave room for socializing too.

Relations at job - the good part

There are many aspects to take into account: both positive and negative, before you engage in an affair with a colleague from work. One positive aspect is that no longer have to look elsewhere for a potential partner already have one beautiful women in the workplace. Save time and money.

Another advantage is that spending so many hours around a certain person already know, you know what kind of man is to know what to expect. This can save you from many headaches.

Another advantage besides sex is that you can stay together over night and you go imprena morning. Call destresant, huh?

Relations at job - the bad part

Like anything, there are some less good. However well the relationship works, that are non-stop together will inevitably lead to disaster. Everyone needs a time or just for itself. Relationships at work can affect professional skills.

Jealousy is another negative aspect. If you keep the relationship secret, other employees may flirt with your girlfriend and vice versa. Remember that this type of flirting is common and often happen at work.

Relations at job - the ugly part

Before you engage in a relationship with a colleague from work, take into account the following: if the relationship will end, you will be able to stay in the same building, or office with it? Be prepared for any unpleasant situation that might arise and evaluate cases where you met with:
a colleague: rivalry and competition might affect your relationship. Less pleasant situations might occur after your separation: advancement will become the main subject of dispute;

a subordinate: False accusations of favoritism may arise, as accusations of sexual harassment in the event of any separation;
-the boss: same as in the previous case can Isca false accusations of favoritism. You could be fired after separation ...

Have you seen the good and the least good, now remains to decide if you want or not a relationship at work. Good luck!

How do you know that your friend is not trustworthy?

It is said that we choose friends on our own, so we should be very careful of the choices we make in this field. First we must ensure that we keep next to new people trust to help us in difficult moments and with whom to share the joys of life.

Trust is an essential thing in any relationship, especially in a friendly. Any man who is next in your beautiful moments and also sad moments, must be confident, understanding and above all, a reliable person.

To be sure your friends are exactly those people who speak up, look at these signs that may betray a false friend, a friend can not honor your trust and respect.

1. He spoke of evil


A true friend will not judge and will not ever talk bad about you. Even if not always agree with your views or even if not always share the same tastes on various activities, that does not mean you have the right to judge.
If you find that your friend talked bad about you it's time to cataloghezi it as an unreliable person and try to avoid it in future.

2. Is selfish


We all own a lower dose or more than selfishness, but we strive to not use it in front of friends. Think like a true friend will have to be willing to make sacrifices to help in difficult moments.
If a selfish person who always put himself in the forefront, never will be with you when you ask them, but only if you would have something to gain.

3. You can not rely on it


Your friend always late when you meet? Often forget to bring you the things which you have borrowed? It promises a lot but does nothing? Such behavior show that not one person you can rely on hard times.

You need to have almost resolute people who know how to honor promises, rather than ready to take to run when you need to face consequences of their actions.

4. Is coward


A person of faith means, first of all, a strong person. If your friend gives evidence of cowardice often means you will not be able to rely on it in the future. If you want to have a man next to you that you can help, you must first see if it is able to solve their problems and especially if he can-and carry out the responsibilities.

5. Humiliate you in public


I've shared your friend some humiliating experiences that you went and he set about to tell them the amuzandu when you are in a great circle of friends? You need to know a person that you put your trust will never tend to humiliate you. Do not expect things to worsen, but tries to break away from such people.

6. The chatterbox


Test your friend telling you a secret that you have not told anyone. Invent something and see if it is able to keep a secret. If in a few days your so-called secret came out means that your new friend is not exactly discreet person, where it can be inferred that does not deserve your trust.


True friendship is based on affection, trust and respect. No compromise when you choose your entourage. As long as you provide and respect other's wishes should you expect to be treated equally as such do not settle for less.

The 10 Commandments of Sex's

5 of her, 5 of him:

Women:

1. Have no complex: Size does not matter, battery life yes!

Under the motto "Why take a whole pig for meat?" Club women disappointed by their partners penis, thank the man who invented the vibrator. Not only 'toy' it is a good sexual partner, but may be Carata anywhere, without (it) bored / tired / blame etc.. Etc.. Etc.

2. NOT treat a woman like an inflatable doll: It's cool to do it in acrobatic position, with the mention that "material" is mostly frail women and non-flexible, even when shaking like a bow under the pressure of fat.

I slammed into the wall not believing that cold concrete acts as an aphrodisiac and does not sit on furniture in the idea that a smooth surface can not jump chips by friction. I do not pluck the breasts and not push as if you discovered that the area between my legs is made of rubber. Understand that actresses are paid to the climax gems.

3. NOT wasting your 'seed' on 'dry land': if you insist on my face finish, be prepared for adverse reactions.

Do not do it without me know, that might be to temporarily blind or to regurgitez of reflex or drown and coughing at night when you sleep like a baby ... It is said that seminal fluid is excellent for skin. None commented, just as most women prefer to test all sorts of nonsense from trade odoriferous skin care. Nothing compares to the satisfaction of giving a lot of money on creams to firm and later finds that are not suitable.

4. NOT give lessons in style when you're completely naked, in compromising position: We have no problem with "doggy" but that now has his own style with this position ( "doggy style")?

"Goat" is not favorable position for the women posed in style. High heels 'of the Jimmy Choo' stands out best in the picture "legs".

5. Do not kill the passion: No, the terms "wash up", "Take the trash," "Do clean!" not part of the 'dirty language' that you like you use in bed.

Maybe accept 'dirty language' when I play the maid to bed, but I refuse to accept orders from you when you are tired, sad, stressed, etc. to menstruation.

Men:

1. Do not you do "chip carving: job with 'wiener' smacks of feminism. And if you have befriended so well with the vibrator, then the vibrator will be more than happy to lend your card or his car.

2. NOT regret you have not tried: It's cool to do it in the position of "missionary" with the mention that you are over 40 years, a boring job, 2-3 children and I struggle hemorrhoids.

3. You do not doubt: If you please close your eyes? If you close your eyes, I think you might you like? If you believe me, I?

4. NOT cry, if you see on the net: No one takes pictures while you have sex. Not even understand why you thought this ... Want to ask me something?

5. NOT tired doing nothing: Make up your mind! I think about sex every time I see and I could be confusing ...

He ignores you? Make him jealous!

Relationships during a certain routine print partners, so most of us have come to know very well what it means to be ignored by the partners.

Because habit men often forget that beautiful woman have her near, no longer appreciate and heads back in cold blood by other women on the street. If you known this situation, it's time to show your partner that are still valid. Make him jealous! Give you some ideas:

A new dress and sexy lingerie

Put aside clothes that you wear a few years now, quaint and obviously not very attractive and begin an offensive in stores. Just e season discounts! Do not have to buy tons of clothes and radically change your wardrobe, just a few pieces, strategic. A black dress, and a very sexy underwear to match. Remember the push-up bra!

You can still wear old clothes when you're with him, but for a shock effect, removing the ace from the sleeve at the appropriate time. Wear new acquisitions not for him, but a meeting with colleagues in high school or a meeting with an old friend, for example. You have swagger to him, but with totally different. Surprise! We discover how sexy and you will get downright worried around the world without him. I've already attracted the attention!

Dangerously high heels

Let us understand: not hazardous to your health or balance, but confidence of your man! Your feet will look incredibly sexy and long. Your easy running a pair of fine silk stockings and then complete the picture described above. It will be crazy for your mystery. You're like an undiscovered treasure!

Flirt and a secret admirer

The next time you dine at the restaurant, dressed sexy and continuous smile, innocent flirting with the waiter, being very friendly with everyone. The explanation? You simply well-ordered. Arrange with a friend sending you a message that is posing as a friend wants to meet with you. Show him your message and show you her love of the right gesture surprised friends, they consider stupid. You warned: there men interested in you.

Why sleep in fact, a woman with a man?

How does it on his bed, what excites so much? Is necessary for him to be tall, dark, with blue eyes for him to have the chance? Questions have not given peace of psychologists was born until a book on the topic. And here are some answers that came.


All studies show a: melt by tall women. In an analysis of the matrimonial ads, 80% of women stated in them that would like to meet a gentleman at least 1.80. And those high, passing it in their ads, receive many more responses compared with shorts.

Other research shows that women prefer to be married to high, but present a higher price on high when it comes to relationships of short duration and based more on sex.

There are two studies that found that men were taller than the average usually more loved over many life and older.

Sex perfume

Research recently announced that women literally smell their partner, genetically speaking, to decide if it is appropriate. Woman's sense of smell reaches its peak at ovulation, in those few hours of the menstrual cycle that may become pregnant.

Genes responsible for the fight against bacteria and viruses are a group called the MHC. Different people have different versions of these genes and has proven that women can benefit twice if they choose partners whose MHC genes are different than theirs.

Reduce the risk of birth of children with problems such as those born to parents related, with similar genes. In addition, babies will have a robust immune system.

This developed sense of smell can have a profound effect on women's sexuality. A study on 48 couples revealed that women whose partners have similar genes, have sex with them more often.

Something in the way they move ...

The way someone dances can reveal a lot of information (energy level, state of health.). The questionnaires of two psychologists have shown that some women have had sex with some men just because they have been exposed to as dancing.

Some moves in the ring - the broad, expansive - for they are terribly attractive. And others are measured - for example, when a man reaches behind them another for women is a sign of dominatie.La kind gesture by a man maximizes his space - extends his hands, feet. Those who have an open body position - that does not sit with arms crossed at chest - are considered more potent and more persuasive.

A personality simply irresistible

For some women, personality - especially a great sense of humor - is as important if not more important in sexual attraction. Research shows that married women are more satisfied with the joker of their marriages.

Women considered as a humor that would like it from a short-term partner in a sexual relationship, but from a long-term, in a romantic relationship. There is a difference between the sexes on this subject - women are attracted to men with humor "productive", those that make others laugh, and they are attracted to women with humor "favorable", those who laugh at their jokes.

Santa Claus comes, comes ! Did you written?

Santa Claus comes to those who were obedient and good. You were good?

We hope that the year just ended was as you wanted, with joy and accomplishments, love and friendship.

It will tell you to try that even now, the holidays, to be better, but try it all the time. And teach the others!

I wish you have answered the questions that tormented you. Have found things that they know and have acquired information about things that are not mastered very well.

The holiday is approaching fast, do not hesitate to write to new_fokka@yahoo.com, whenever you have any doubt or any problem related to relationships and sex. We will try to give you an advice to solve your problem together, by email.

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We provide you want Santa to bring you what is beautiful and you feel that you lack. Taking into account the parties on which you go, remember to protect yourself (say not to know of how much time) using a condom, if you meet someone with whom you want to spend beautiful moments.

To parties, deal with the tree, it beautifies as does a child, stay near their loved ones, to cakes. Try to be with family, as you were before you "open your eyes" on the girls. Do not flinch when you feel you want to tell someone you love "I love you". Do you know the joy and fulfillment challenging?

If you do not have to spend New Year's Eve who must solve this issue. Leave shyness, embarrassment and others like it and invited her to New Year's Eve, the girl / guy that you like, but stood at a distance. If you feel the need, make a change and you. Walk to the right in the coming year.

Make a list for Santa Claus or whatever you go from this point in the future. As you realize what you had to list, check. You will feel rich and fulfilled. Do not forget the self-confidence.

Today we will try to "sin" as little word, so that we do not take those people who do not really share with new perceptions. One of the big mistakes we make is that we associate with the real identity virtual characters. Everyone has the right to choose what you want to retain the read. Each acts as he feels. Nobody is obliged to do something that does not agree. Omit worrys with premature ejaculation (many men have this problem), especially as it can be solved with patience and time. Your partner should be "wise", and understand it well, especially as men always reach orgasm faster. Remember that you can make a gift and a sex toy, sex "good" is important in a relationship. Be patient with your partner more, giving it a romantic evening, only lights the tree. Gifts sexy, private parties can ensure the success of sex, and beyond. There will need to do is love sincerely.

Until next year to care for you, it will protect, to love, to wait on a tree near Santa Claus, your loved ones. Do not make any excess and keep you as beautiful and "personality" like before.