The 11 commandments of modern dating

Did he failed to crack a guy and you want to conquer? Find out how going through "The 11 Commandments of Dating". You become a true master in the art of seduction and you'll do as you eat your hands from the first meeting. What should I do? Respect commands seduction and follow the steps proposed by the famous Patti Stanger, on Oprah Winfrey's show.

1. Answer phones in real time


If you received a call from him or SMS, answer them. Not the second two, if you're busy, but not in three days. Best time would be about 48 hours. More than likely you will find a 5 minute break during this time to return a phone call. Stop taking after you see in movies. That theory of romance sites on the big screen, according to which you must wait at least three days up to give a sign, no longer current. We live in rapidity century, and like you, and your claimant may have a busy schedule, which would allow it to stand to give you lessons you good manners.

2. Respect your promises


Show all the time you're a man of his word. If you schedule an appointment, do not cancel under any circumstances. Maybe only if you call 10 minutes before Brad Pitt and I asked the wife. It is important to give him to understand that it can rely on. A fiduciary is a man of his word. So if you made a program, take care to respect.

3. Let him take the first step


Probably you already seem old-fashioned, but continued to sit men enrolled DNA letters a span: Bruises. So you better hide your feminist side, take your eyes off "the deer lost in space" and let Him take the lead. He should call you first, you must remove it first in the city. It is an unwritten rule to be respected. If you think that is shy but you think it will take a century to make a move, you can give him a nudge. For example, invite him to organize a party on him but let him take you to the dance.

4. Leave the past in the past


That means: "no discussion about former". Do not want to have unnecessary headaches. Usually men are afraid of this former partner in their life, thinking that there may be feelings that still affect this relationship.

5. Be enthusiastic


Get involved in talks, ask him advice, be careful and enthusiastic in his words. He must be your point of interest and not that cute bartender who will serve. Very important, when you talk keeps eye contact, you will give to understand that you are with them not only this but also the mind.

6. Do not drink


Can be very tempting few glasses of wine before or during a meeting with a guy to relax. But that does not mean that implies something sexy. Try to limit. You drink a glass of alcohol within two but not more. Eventually you must keep your mind clear to focus and pay attention to the details meeting. Moreover, the image of women that just sticks longer find words is not at all attractive in a man's mind ... never.

7. Do not be materialistic


Not ask for money. Eventually is a potential boyfriend, not your bank loans. If you give him a gift, it is nice to accept. But do not let him never to give you money. After all do not want to give him the feeling that you maintain. Even if at first you think you help by paying your bills or rent, then it will feel like you should actually pay affection.


8. Behave like a real lady


Be polite. Get used to say "please" and "thank you". Do not swear and do not sit with legs sprawling guys. Most men prefer women courteous, well bred and cared for. Of course, this does not mean to let you wait for three o'clock to finish you with makeup. I give to understand that no price put on his time. There is an appropriate attitude for a lady.

9. Show appreciation and admiration


As for women, men love to be complimented. Remember this thing. You could, after a month will also see, was it surprising that a nice gesture to show your appreciation. Cook you dinner or if you know it's crazy in a special chocolate, give them a gift when you meet next time.

10. Do not fall in first night


Kisses, hugs are OK. But nothing more. Take it easy Well, get involved in the relationship first and then choose to have sex. An exchange of sexual favors before the relationship itself to ask this thing will start sautéing them before actually.


11. Avoid instant messaging


You are not at school, as such ceases to send all notes ... even if they are virtual. If you do it, chances that he call you instead to keep a virtual relationship with you are greater. Remember, a woman falls in love by hearing, not through sight. And as long as your hearing is still properly, stay away from your computer. Away from the chat area and goes into real life.

What men look at a partner

Whether it is physical, psychological, cultural or professional men, like women, have a particular pattern that you follow in choosing a life partner.

Formed after a series of clearly defined criteria, this model helps representatives of sex hard to realize that traits must meet their dream woman.

How does this and what you can do to get away as much of it, reveal to as reading "What are you looking for men in a partner.

Physical


Men feel attracted to women with forms. Most have it backwards when she has a few extra pounds and are less people looking foar sylphid those models that may be suspected of anorexia. Let's not forget, men sought to go beyond name, have heirs and for that they need a healthy woman whose body was being built to give birth to more children.

Very important in the construction of a woman, besides harmonious forms, is and "that something" that attracts the eyes. In terms of image, it must present a range of issues after puberty. In the mind of any man lies a dreamer who are in search of the features teenage Lolita. So, women have a childish look prevailed.

On the other hand, the media greatly affected the men's artistic sense in choosing a woman. Given this sketch deceptive beauty tools Photoshop, and some men - have already established a stereotype of beauty: high, with forms, with long hair, preferably black, blue eyes and white skin. However, most will choose to spend the rest of the life of a woman with normal, earthly, which have that "je ne sais quoi" drew on his face.


Psychological


On the psychological, men looking for in a friend that a woman can rely, to a mother who comforts her forehead when you feel powerless or who possesses a master of seduction art of love. But most importantly, a man seeking woman to love, she connected emotionally. Although it may seem odd, while for women, sex drive triggers emotional connection to a man that connection is a bridge leading to a long term relationship. Men want to be loved, appreciated, respected.

Cultural


Men are attracted to a woman secure in her independence and intelligence, but there are few people who choose to spend their remaining days with this type of woman.

Most men seek a woman to be intelligent, but not in it enough to be their superior, master it sufficiently enough to hold two times in three movements and family savings, but not so much to face only a beetle and puny in the bathroom. That Tarzan of the jungle, that Hollywood film Braveheart's ready to jump in any time to save the woman there latent in every male representative.

So, a woman who will choose it will be mostly lost that deer do not find the way home without her male that she-wolf and not able to raise only 50 offspring. Male pride will not let them be put to respect the wolf and that's because they make them feel that when the mother was caught walking on sweets in store.

Professional



In terms of career, the most common variants are:

1 Men with vision who prefer patriarchal casnicele ready to grow a crowd of children while they, the true pillars of the house, working for family maintenance.

2 Men who want a career woman next to her but, if possible, the same branch with them. Those who seek a business partner, a person to understand in terms of professional who can make the team for putting up a business or project.

Of the said before, you can easily see that a man seeking a woman not just sexual attraction, how often allow to discern, but a real accumulation of social and psychological traits. So, as the list prepared by a woman is long, the husband from her and not let less important to stay close and you should tick a good part of the items present on that sheet.

Testosterone or male seduction magic secret

We present it on the main "culprit" for the animal attraction, look sexy, male potency and sex drive: testosterone. The best friend of a man's, testosterone give one the descendants of Adam a  irresistible and  conqueror air.

Testosterone and potency

Even if all men love any sex activity, not everyone can get involved in something without carry a sufficient amount of testosterone. Whatever intellectual ability, character or conduct, they will never face the mating ritual in the absence of the hormone in question. Thanks to a sufficiently high level of testosterone, a man can enjoy the maximum attraction and seduction, sexual acts satisfactory and even masturbation.

Testosterone and masturbation

During puberty, boys begin to realize their own sexuality. Those who have high levels of testosterone have a higher sexual desire for self-discovery stage, it excites more easily and more often than their counterparts with a somewhat lower level. Therefore, masturbate more often and, later, will know instinctively how should satisfy a woman.

Testosterone and physical attraction

Women judge men's sexual potential depending on the level of confidence in his own person that are to be displayed. Strong mens, know ther ables, know their forces and know how to mesh any woman. Testosterone is "to blame" because, besides the reliable, very masculine appearance which gives it a magnet attracts few representations of sex.

Testosterone and appearance

As we said above, testosterone plays a significant role and the chapter layout for men. Studies have shown that men whose testosterone level is high muscle mass have a more developed, are well developed, are in shape for sports in general are more.

Also, these men have thicker hair and distributed more extensive areas of the body, compared with men whose testosterone level is lower. And last but not least, testosterone influences and facial appearance, those in which hormone ar high have features tougher and more pronounced Adam's apple.