The 11 commandments of modern dating

Did he failed to crack a guy and you want to conquer? Find out how going through "The 11 Commandments of Dating". You become a true master in the art of seduction and you'll do as you eat your hands from the first meeting. What should I do? Respect commands seduction and follow the steps proposed by the famous Patti Stanger, on Oprah Winfrey's show.

1. Answer phones in real time


If you received a call from him or SMS, answer them. Not the second two, if you're busy, but not in three days. Best time would be about 48 hours. More than likely you will find a 5 minute break during this time to return a phone call. Stop taking after you see in movies. That theory of romance sites on the big screen, according to which you must wait at least three days up to give a sign, no longer current. We live in rapidity century, and like you, and your claimant may have a busy schedule, which would allow it to stand to give you lessons you good manners.

2. Respect your promises


Show all the time you're a man of his word. If you schedule an appointment, do not cancel under any circumstances. Maybe only if you call 10 minutes before Brad Pitt and I asked the wife. It is important to give him to understand that it can rely on. A fiduciary is a man of his word. So if you made a program, take care to respect.

3. Let him take the first step


Probably you already seem old-fashioned, but continued to sit men enrolled DNA letters a span: Bruises. So you better hide your feminist side, take your eyes off "the deer lost in space" and let Him take the lead. He should call you first, you must remove it first in the city. It is an unwritten rule to be respected. If you think that is shy but you think it will take a century to make a move, you can give him a nudge. For example, invite him to organize a party on him but let him take you to the dance.

4. Leave the past in the past


That means: "no discussion about former". Do not want to have unnecessary headaches. Usually men are afraid of this former partner in their life, thinking that there may be feelings that still affect this relationship.

5. Be enthusiastic


Get involved in talks, ask him advice, be careful and enthusiastic in his words. He must be your point of interest and not that cute bartender who will serve. Very important, when you talk keeps eye contact, you will give to understand that you are with them not only this but also the mind.

6. Do not drink


Can be very tempting few glasses of wine before or during a meeting with a guy to relax. But that does not mean that implies something sexy. Try to limit. You drink a glass of alcohol within two but not more. Eventually you must keep your mind clear to focus and pay attention to the details meeting. Moreover, the image of women that just sticks longer find words is not at all attractive in a man's mind ... never.

7. Do not be materialistic


Not ask for money. Eventually is a potential boyfriend, not your bank loans. If you give him a gift, it is nice to accept. But do not let him never to give you money. After all do not want to give him the feeling that you maintain. Even if at first you think you help by paying your bills or rent, then it will feel like you should actually pay affection.


8. Behave like a real lady


Be polite. Get used to say "please" and "thank you". Do not swear and do not sit with legs sprawling guys. Most men prefer women courteous, well bred and cared for. Of course, this does not mean to let you wait for three o'clock to finish you with makeup. I give to understand that no price put on his time. There is an appropriate attitude for a lady.

9. Show appreciation and admiration


As for women, men love to be complimented. Remember this thing. You could, after a month will also see, was it surprising that a nice gesture to show your appreciation. Cook you dinner or if you know it's crazy in a special chocolate, give them a gift when you meet next time.

10. Do not fall in first night


Kisses, hugs are OK. But nothing more. Take it easy Well, get involved in the relationship first and then choose to have sex. An exchange of sexual favors before the relationship itself to ask this thing will start sautéing them before actually.


11. Avoid instant messaging


You are not at school, as such ceases to send all notes ... even if they are virtual. If you do it, chances that he call you instead to keep a virtual relationship with you are greater. Remember, a woman falls in love by hearing, not through sight. And as long as your hearing is still properly, stay away from your computer. Away from the chat area and goes into real life.

Mr. Perfect by ... Net. An inspired choice?

Whether you're already in a relationship online and looking for some advice or you just think to get involved in this phenomenon, this volume will help. Diane M. Berry, a therapist specializing in couple relations, shows you how to fill out a profile that attracts a healthy and positive relationship and how to read the profile of a potential partner, looking for warning signs.

Why are acceptable meeting on the Net
You bring about a greater number of people than those in your community. For example, you have more control over the process. Choose your site, you need to say, how much you want to get involved, who want to contact and when, and how you want to do.

Moreover, there are a lot of people that you can choose and usually right in front of you have shown what they like, dislike, personality style and what you want. It's a store full of potential partners for life!

Internet addresses to remember!
There are plenty of sites that you can get to meet your match. Best Site - www.match.com. It is also a popular starting point for getting together.

It is easy to understand and not hard to start. | n addition, the trial period you can, at least, an opportunity to gather information about potential candidates. Other sites dedicated meetings: www.datemate.com, www.singleme.com, www.kiss.com, www.webdate.com etc.

Complete your profile smart!
Use the essay to provide a true understanding of your personality. No thank you to say you're a smart man or woman funny, give an example with a clever play on words or a funny story, especially one about you (modesty is a very attractive quality in a partner). This can show also that you not take very seriously and can carry confidence.

Strong sensations on-line

Are you ready to make new friends or just want to experience an online relationship? If so, install yourself comfortably in front of computer and type in sex chat on one of the major search engines.

As you blink, you wake up in front of a page interwoven with such sites. The offer is generally the most obedient (friends, dating) to hot sex ... Yes one click and welcome to the world those how chat for hours, talking cock-and-n stars. Let's start the chat. GO!

There is nothing wrong with the story with chat, say experts. But still they come and warn us. There are many cases when such a fun ends with no happy ending. So do not fall into that trap of virtual friend. It seems, however, that you assume the risk worth this game, because, beyond disappointment, there officers chat real, a real source of entertainment and, why not, the love story.

You have the choice, well defined criteria: categories of age, sex, or no picture ... If you are ready for new adventures, not stay too long on thoughts and add your profile and you endless list and let you "devoured" by consumers chat.

Cold and hot discussions take place with partners of all kinds, girls and boys across the globe, in all languages, without limit, because in this world no restrictions. A little secret? Sure to get you a safe and you meet anyone or even more virtual friends that you want to continue correspondence. Make you some limits! You must know them ...

With love to chat

And it all begins ... Today no more than a half hour, just enough to give the world account of your existence. Tomorrow, though, you will naval dozens of questions and messages, especially if your profile is exciting. And time is larger uiala chat ... After a while, without you, you think as soon as you finish all the duties of any kind, to see what I say electronic friends.

Where else put there and the risk you fall in love. Who knows how you fall with some Prince Charming virtually gone and then you see ... Maximum Attention! Clip on the net holds many surprises, not just pleasant. So be very vigilance if you feel that a relationship of friendship is heading in another direction ... to heart!

Psychologists are unanimously agreed that relations on the net are fun, but not desirable, because there is risk of losing contact with the real world. And all they may say that people who search for the pair on the Internet usually have a problem.

Whether conceal a physical defect, a sexual frustration or evil intentions. But we can not exclude that category which represents the exception to the rule: those who seek only to have fun, showing their true face. Innocent followers of virtual flirting! But friendship is tied to the real world. You know!

Internet Slang

PLMK - Please let me know. You are about to enter the first words, well you should know that since then, you speak a new language. English is compulsory! And you will have to quickly put you up with new rules of writing. Not the other, but have to keep up and understand what the world wants from you.

Here are some of the most common formula: ASL - Age / sex / location, BRB - Be right back, BTW - By the way, SU - See you (later), FOAF - Friend of a friend, HAND - Have A Nice Day , HF - Have fun, KISS - Keep it simple, stupid, K or KK - OK, KTHX - OK, thanks, LMIRL - Let's meet in real life, TYVM - Thank you very much, YW - You're welcome.