Friday, February 26, 2010

We two and a sex toy!

"Is something wrong in using sex toys?", Wonders one NewFokka reader. "I do not know how to get into discussion topic with my boyfriend who became a deja vu in the bedroom", it complains, explaining that he wants to get out of "routine unbearable. How to approach the subject without her lover to feel offended? NF comes with tips.

Sex toys are not contrary to morals way property and the Stone Age is over long ago. But it is imperative to speak before you buy a toy, to avoid inconvenience of any kind.

The approach of the subject may be varied, from the attitude of "What would it be if ..." "I would love ...", "Last night I dreamed ..." to "I have a gift for us ..." or "Go or both separately and try to surprise each other ... "etc..

Even though sex toys are associated with solitary activity, in fact they are especially important ingredients in the life of the couple. Most sex toys are divided into two groups - sex toys for men and sex toys for women.

Your partner should not feel offended in any way, but if you feel self-esteem and confidence in his masculinity is not his strong points is obigatoriu torque simultaneous introduction of both kinds of toys.

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Rings ... for mans!

If You want to make a special gift and you gave your beloved winter in a sex shop, I advise you to be wary of. Some are more complicated than they seem at first sight, so it would be well documented before you give free rein fantasies!

Penis rings are made of steel or rubber and resembles a garnish or an adjustable belt material. They sit in the penis idea to keep a strong erection. How it works?

Well, ring "strangle" male sex organ, preventing blood flow out of the penis, once entered in this area. Make sure to sit it on its intended place before the penis to harden! Finally, many men enjoy pleasant sensations generated by the pressure exerted by the ring on the penis and scrotum.

Tips for use:

- Never use them if you take aspirin, anticoagulants or other drugs for blood thinning;
- That prevents blood flow, the rings are not suitable for men who have problems with clotting, bleeding easily, suffer from neurological or vascular disease;
- Caution is advised for those with diabetes;
- Does not apply to areas inflamed, infected or desensitizing;
- No longer use if you notice discomfort, pain, bruises, bleeding or desensitisation to first use;
- Rings are not used as a treatment for impotence!

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

The 11 commandments of modern dating

Did he failed to crack a guy and you want to conquer? Find out how going through "The 11 Commandments of Dating". You become a true master in the art of seduction and you'll do as you eat your hands from the first meeting. What should I do? Respect commands seduction and follow the steps proposed by the famous Patti Stanger, on Oprah Winfrey's show.

1. Answer phones in real time


If you received a call from him or SMS, answer them. Not the second two, if you're busy, but not in three days. Best time would be about 48 hours. More than likely you will find a 5 minute break during this time to return a phone call. Stop taking after you see in movies. That theory of romance sites on the big screen, according to which you must wait at least three days up to give a sign, no longer current. We live in rapidity century, and like you, and your claimant may have a busy schedule, which would allow it to stand to give you lessons you good manners.

2. Respect your promises


Show all the time you're a man of his word. If you schedule an appointment, do not cancel under any circumstances. Maybe only if you call 10 minutes before Brad Pitt and I asked the wife. It is important to give him to understand that it can rely on. A fiduciary is a man of his word. So if you made a program, take care to respect.

3. Let him take the first step


Probably you already seem old-fashioned, but continued to sit men enrolled DNA letters a span: Bruises. So you better hide your feminist side, take your eyes off "the deer lost in space" and let Him take the lead. He should call you first, you must remove it first in the city. It is an unwritten rule to be respected. If you think that is shy but you think it will take a century to make a move, you can give him a nudge. For example, invite him to organize a party on him but let him take you to the dance.

4. Leave the past in the past


That means: "no discussion about former". Do not want to have unnecessary headaches. Usually men are afraid of this former partner in their life, thinking that there may be feelings that still affect this relationship.

5. Be enthusiastic


Get involved in talks, ask him advice, be careful and enthusiastic in his words. He must be your point of interest and not that cute bartender who will serve. Very important, when you talk keeps eye contact, you will give to understand that you are with them not only this but also the mind.

6. Do not drink


Can be very tempting few glasses of wine before or during a meeting with a guy to relax. But that does not mean that implies something sexy. Try to limit. You drink a glass of alcohol within two but not more. Eventually you must keep your mind clear to focus and pay attention to the details meeting. Moreover, the image of women that just sticks longer find words is not at all attractive in a man's mind ... never.

7. Do not be materialistic


Not ask for money. Eventually is a potential boyfriend, not your bank loans. If you give him a gift, it is nice to accept. But do not let him never to give you money. After all do not want to give him the feeling that you maintain. Even if at first you think you help by paying your bills or rent, then it will feel like you should actually pay affection.


8. Behave like a real lady


Be polite. Get used to say "please" and "thank you". Do not swear and do not sit with legs sprawling guys. Most men prefer women courteous, well bred and cared for. Of course, this does not mean to let you wait for three o'clock to finish you with makeup. I give to understand that no price put on his time. There is an appropriate attitude for a lady.

9. Show appreciation and admiration


As for women, men love to be complimented. Remember this thing. You could, after a month will also see, was it surprising that a nice gesture to show your appreciation. Cook you dinner or if you know it's crazy in a special chocolate, give them a gift when you meet next time.

10. Do not fall in first night


Kisses, hugs are OK. But nothing more. Take it easy Well, get involved in the relationship first and then choose to have sex. An exchange of sexual favors before the relationship itself to ask this thing will start sautéing them before actually.


11. Avoid instant messaging


You are not at school, as such ceases to send all notes ... even if they are virtual. If you do it, chances that he call you instead to keep a virtual relationship with you are greater. Remember, a woman falls in love by hearing, not through sight. And as long as your hearing is still properly, stay away from your computer. Away from the chat area and goes into real life.

How to answer insults and bad jokes

Stinging remarks, insults or simple jokes, here are some examples of how you can be verbally attacked by a person not just well intentioned. How to fight back? Get angry, yell to be left alone, or choose to jump to beat calm and wisdom shall specify a master martial arts?

Martha Beck, best-selling author of "Steering by Starlight" and five other successful books, has set out in O, The Oprah Magazine a very good idea to be implemented. How about if you follow a course entitled "Mastering martial arts of mind"?

First lesson: Find your center


Any form of martial art teaches you to find your position that the body balanced, stable and able to give you strength when you start to attack. The same need to do and when you're caught in a psychological conflict. Sure difference is this time to search your position trebuies mental rather than physical. Thus, you find that point of peace and reconciliation with itself, accept your mistakes and repeat in your mind your good points.

It is important to control your emotions and do not judge too hard for mistakes. Your opponent will always try to touch on your point sensitive to what hurts you more and makes you feel bad. If you have such a point that has not been hit, right?

Lesson Two: Practice the art of disappearance


You probably think that you give evidence of weakness if you choose to delete, but just not so. Often, some people are simply hopeless. It's like you try to look for excuses a perpetrator with mental problems who try to kill the street. The fact that a child had sequelae not excuse the conduct psycho-patologico-unstable. Thus, if a person hurt you every time you meet or just verbally, do everything possible to disappear from his path. Even if you try to convince that evil is derived from the traumas of childhood and may be a better man, he still will not change behavior, so it's useless to shake you.

Lesson Three: Exercise is makes perfect


Now you know what position to take in front of opponent and clearly know what dedication it bears, is to put into practice the very best techniques and paresis to verbal blows. There are three ways that you can grab one, depending on which one you choose depending on your degree of irritation to cause the person so far and the relationship of you.

1 Technique: warning horn


When you see a pedestrian has the intention to move the red, denying to the consequences, tend to horn to make it to react, is not it? Same thing you can do with your friend "well intentioned". When salt horse and see that it already feel bothered by his remarks and tell him calmly respicat: "Stop. I mean it! ". Repeat this sentence and you'll see how much power gain while those simple words of your opponents.

2 Technique: The invaluire


When you attack, you're used to answer the same. There are few people who believe in the phrase "turn the other cheek". But not for nothing was thought. The easiest way to debusola opponent is take it with you to slam invaluire answer to that and not expect it so amutesti.

Here the example that it is a film that was numti "Spanglish". A young wife, played by Tea Leoni throw them in front of his mother: "You were an alcoholic and promiscuous woman during the years in which I made myself. Well, just for that reason, I am now as is ". Mother's answer was one place. "You have a very strong point of view my dear. But what you do not know is that the lessons learned by me are now in your hand. "Retort that unexpected fury face off, partly because a statement was a correct and some that did not contain anything malicious in it.

3 Technique: Weapon of good parent


When you were little and make a cheekiness, it happens that your mother rebuked you so much gentleness and kindness that make you feel super guilty because you upset her? Feeling guilt is enjoyable for anyone. Why not also adopt the same technique you used for your mother and Father to do good and wise with your opponent? Tell him, on a gentle tone that you did not expect this behavior from him and that I was deeply disappointed. Your opponent will be completely disarmed and no longer know how to fix the mistake and to show that he is actually much better than that.

Being a master of martial arts requires such a lifestyle, one that once adopted, will make the opponent infirm and fear in one strong and always ready to fight back ... and have to choose other modes of the answer, avoiding violent response.

What men look at a partner

Whether it is physical, psychological, cultural or professional men, like women, have a particular pattern that you follow in choosing a life partner.

Formed after a series of clearly defined criteria, this model helps representatives of sex hard to realize that traits must meet their dream woman.

How does this and what you can do to get away as much of it, reveal to as reading "What are you looking for men in a partner.

Physical


Men feel attracted to women with forms. Most have it backwards when she has a few extra pounds and are less people looking foar sylphid those models that may be suspected of anorexia. Let's not forget, men sought to go beyond name, have heirs and for that they need a healthy woman whose body was being built to give birth to more children.

Very important in the construction of a woman, besides harmonious forms, is and "that something" that attracts the eyes. In terms of image, it must present a range of issues after puberty. In the mind of any man lies a dreamer who are in search of the features teenage Lolita. So, women have a childish look prevailed.

On the other hand, the media greatly affected the men's artistic sense in choosing a woman. Given this sketch deceptive beauty tools Photoshop, and some men - have already established a stereotype of beauty: high, with forms, with long hair, preferably black, blue eyes and white skin. However, most will choose to spend the rest of the life of a woman with normal, earthly, which have that "je ne sais quoi" drew on his face.


Psychological


On the psychological, men looking for in a friend that a woman can rely, to a mother who comforts her forehead when you feel powerless or who possesses a master of seduction art of love. But most importantly, a man seeking woman to love, she connected emotionally. Although it may seem odd, while for women, sex drive triggers emotional connection to a man that connection is a bridge leading to a long term relationship. Men want to be loved, appreciated, respected.

Cultural


Men are attracted to a woman secure in her independence and intelligence, but there are few people who choose to spend their remaining days with this type of woman.

Most men seek a woman to be intelligent, but not in it enough to be their superior, master it sufficiently enough to hold two times in three movements and family savings, but not so much to face only a beetle and puny in the bathroom. That Tarzan of the jungle, that Hollywood film Braveheart's ready to jump in any time to save the woman there latent in every male representative.

So, a woman who will choose it will be mostly lost that deer do not find the way home without her male that she-wolf and not able to raise only 50 offspring. Male pride will not let them be put to respect the wolf and that's because they make them feel that when the mother was caught walking on sweets in store.

Professional



In terms of career, the most common variants are:

1 Men with vision who prefer patriarchal casnicele ready to grow a crowd of children while they, the true pillars of the house, working for family maintenance.

2 Men who want a career woman next to her but, if possible, the same branch with them. Those who seek a business partner, a person to understand in terms of professional who can make the team for putting up a business or project.

Of the said before, you can easily see that a man seeking a woman not just sexual attraction, how often allow to discern, but a real accumulation of social and psychological traits. So, as the list prepared by a woman is long, the husband from her and not let less important to stay close and you should tick a good part of the items present on that sheet.

10 issues for a happy sex life

Often, sexual fulfillment is a test plan that you have to pass it. It's like in school: do you teach lessons, learn and then support the exam. But for students awarded a need to have all work done, right?

At the initiative of Oprah, Dr. Laura Berman has proposed a series of practical exercises designed to improve your sex life. Follow the "10 Themes for a happy sex life, do your homework so conscientious and guarantee your incendiary moments in the bedroom.

1. Love list


Often, jealousy and distrust in you and your partner may undermine such a relationship and create a lot of problems in the bedroom. What should I do to avoid it work?

Write on a piece of paper five things you love to your partner and put it and him to do the same. After you have finished, place you on the couch and read aloud what you said about each other. You will see that jealousy and distrust will disappear as if by magic.

Then, go in the bedroom and do so only at a different level ... hotter. Imagine a box that will put sexual fantasies. Incepti to talk about what you love, dreams and desires. The most interesting sexual fantasies will be placed on a sheet of paper and put in a shoe box that you always have one in the bedroom. If you feel that your sex life needs a revival, shoot lots of fantasy magic box and put it into application.

2. Moments in two


Perhaps you often happened that caught the everyday problems, to live with the feeling that you have not met with your husband for a long time, although living together. Barely have time to talk, let alone to have sex. But this does not sound too promising for your relationship. Need to pay attention and your personal life and to devote time "moments in two". Submit your like in a week to do at least these three things together with your boyfriend:

• A night out in two. May I ask the grandparents to take care of the children or talk to your friends to do the bone, schedule an evening in the city only with your husband.
• A night of sex. At least once a week, sets a hot night together with your boyfriend. You choose the day, should not be a fix, after all sex should not be set as a Swiss watch.
• Program the delights and tenderness. Dedica10-15 minutes a day to spoil moments, kissed and relaxed with the boyfriend ... anywhere else than in front of the TV.

3. Sexual therapy


Sometimes it happens that, whatever you do and however you try, your sex life to be still desirable. But you should not leave victim and resign ourselves to you.

Submit your as this week to seek a specialist in couples therapy. You should not hesitate or to think that resorting to such services only for those with very large problems. You want to know how well do tons emotional and psychic endorsed a discussion with someone ready to solve your problem.

4. Flirt


Flirting involves something fun and sexy, even if you're single or coupled. As such, this week should really flirting. If you seem like not addressed, trying to smile sexy type of coffee or on the street. If you're in a relationship, throw them on a hidden and sexy your partner when you are on the table, in the city.

5. Senses exploration


Vision, hearing, smell and touch sensory information that provides you increase your feelings. The same is true in terms of your sexuality.
Seeks to test these senses, and deepen them in this way descatusesti your primary sexual impulses.

6. Negativism ... no


Remove negativism of your mind and in your relationship. Write on a sheet of paper negative thoughts or experiences you have disappointment and throw paper in the garbage.

The aim is to build a healthy thinking, let me love you more and you never let negative emotions trapped. Remove bad karma and make space so positive thoughts.

7. Sex appeal requires investment


No matter age, gender or status of a relationship, your goal is to feel sexy and stay that way. Here some things you could do them in this regard:

• Invest in clothing items that make you feel sexy and attractive. Think that does not do it for you but for your partner.
• Buy your own set of lingerie "hot" forms that highlight your sexy
• Use a sensual fragrance and pays special attention to hair, nails and skin

Any offers you confidence and makes you feel downright irresistible to be passed on your list.

8. Fulfilling wishes


Try listening to your partner and make yourself heard. Concentrate and pay attention to details and body language. Get used to pay attention to what does the other, to hear him or just wait to you come to talk and turn to attack?

Give all your attention and your partner and trying when you listen to it and understand it. When you feel comfortable for both of us reached a threshold in question, tell him directly and without fear of rejection what you want from him. Whether it is a domestic load or a fantasy in the bedroom, it is important to say it aloud.

9. Letter of love


When did you last made your partner a love letter? And here not talking about e-mail or SMS, but a traditional letter, written on a sheet of paper with perfume smell that reminds me of first love in adolescence.

Put down your thoughts, be honest and let your imagination play. May tell why it is so important for you or your relationship is the place where you wake creeps when you meet, one thing is clear: you have to declare your feelings.

10. Affection in public


To show affection in public is a proof of love and tenderness. And eventually when you love and love you feel the need to share happiness with everyone, right?

So feel free and show your lover how much I love it when you walk in the park or go together to eat something. You should not feel embarrassed, as long as you do not do anything that would make an arrest, everything is allowed. Some kissing and flirting gestures are more than welcome.

The myth of sexual peak at 30 years

While for some it may mean to a certain age have the right to vote, to drive or consume alcohol, for many women, the age of 32 years make by themselves the right to have as many orgasms.

Why just this age considering that about men climax sex life is 18-19 years, are in the following.

The theory that women reach sexual peak after passing of 30 years was put up by Dr. Albert Kinsley. According to his studies, women were part of the most orgasms in this phase of life. Many doctors and specialists in the field have come up with arguments and counter arguments, creating a real controversy around this topic.

Many believe that the physical, at this age there was no change in the metabolism.

"This period of prosperity sex or sexual climax as it is called a myth and nothing more. From this peak physically there ... any change in hormone levels, no change in the endocrine system. The whole notion is an invention of man ", says Dr. Pepper Schwartz, professor sociology at the University of Washington, Seattle.

However, a survey done among men and women show that increasingly more male representatives complain that their wives can not make them too sexually active when they reach this threshold. On the other hand, many women said they feel more sexually active at 30 years than at age 18-20.

And after all of that? Taking into account that the period of maximum fertility per woman is reached at age 24 years, as the desire to have sex is more pronounced than later?

Studies done on women of different ages come to give us the answer. According to them, to pass the threshold of 30 years, she feels more experienced, more self-possessed and on her own sexuality. Knows exactly what she wants and how to get what he wants.

On the other hand, women feel threatened by 30 years to 20 years younger, more physically attractive. Taking into account the fact that sex can mean power, those who have crossed the threshold of 30 years using this weapon to fight against women 20 years, the advantage of youth.

Moreover, when it comes to sexual, women are involved primarily emotional condition is not obligatory for men, and considering that 30 years requires a maturity in terms of thinking, is not surprising that sexual maturity is framed in the same age limit.

Even if this myth is the one true or not, that women experience more orgasms from that age or not, one thing is clear: increasingly more men are attracted to women over 30 years. Is it the same reason?

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Signs that he is the one

Butterfly in your stomach feel when you see him, your feet soften down when he get near you and you melt the longing of moments when you do not see him. "I love him", you say to you and still you can not help yourself not to go ... "Is he to be the one?".

Can never be sure that your boyfriend is that "the one" with whom to spend the rest of your life. But even if you can not be 100% sure of this, there are indications that you can show that you made the right choice. Take a look at those listed below and see if your lover is framed in profile "chosen".

• You are very attracted to each other. When you are together you will not break one of the arms of another. Physical attraction is an essential starting point in strengthening a long-term relationships, do not forget this thing.

• You are on the same wavelength in terms of personality. "Those who also gather, say a word. It will like a lot in terms of temperament is an important milestone when it starts a life in two.

• You share the same hobbies, same hobbies. Eventually it will argue on the remote just because one is mad about football and the other, processed by soap, not so good an idea. It is very important for a couple to have a similar vision of the entertainment and leisure. Of course this is not supposed to be perfectly suited to any but to be able to compromise and patience with other passions.

• You have the same scale of values, from a professional viewpoint. Your principles are similar, divided aceealasi goals and have the same scale of values with which you will succeed professionally.

• Submit constant effort to show how important you are for each other. The fire of passion to support not only in the first three months of a relationship. Evidence and gestures of love should exist between you and 80 years.

• You respect each other. Respect is a quality essential to strengthen a relationship of trust and long lasting. If you do not respect and do not comply, do not have no business together.

• You are compatible on the emotional side. She felt as love, He gave and received in the same way is the key to a happy relationship. Emotional connections are not about to let one die. And the more they are deeper and deeper, the more chances to lie on the relationship of years are larger.

Now that you found that it is "the one" not to sleep on the ear. A relationship is built and fortified everyday. We should not be rushed or before you dive. Analyze your situation every step and think carefully before making a decision, for it always take the appropriate one.

Monday, February 22, 2010

Amorous relationships at job

Early career youth often spend more time at work than at home. As a result, many women are young and single men who do not have time for meetings. Naturally, its search partner in the environment in which spin more often.

Single people think work is a friendly place to meet new people. Relationships at work are tempting for the job generally do not leave room for socializing too.

Relations at job - the good part

There are many aspects to take into account: both positive and negative, before you engage in an affair with a colleague from work. One positive aspect is that no longer have to look elsewhere for a potential partner already have one beautiful women in the workplace. Save time and money.

Another advantage is that spending so many hours around a certain person already know, you know what kind of man is to know what to expect. This can save you from many headaches.

Another advantage besides sex is that you can stay together over night and you go imprena morning. Call destresant, huh?

Relations at job - the bad part

Like anything, there are some less good. However well the relationship works, that are non-stop together will inevitably lead to disaster. Everyone needs a time or just for itself. Relationships at work can affect professional skills.

Jealousy is another negative aspect. If you keep the relationship secret, other employees may flirt with your girlfriend and vice versa. Remember that this type of flirting is common and often happen at work.

Relations at job - the ugly part

Before you engage in a relationship with a colleague from work, take into account the following: if the relationship will end, you will be able to stay in the same building, or office with it? Be prepared for any unpleasant situation that might arise and evaluate cases where you met with:
a colleague: rivalry and competition might affect your relationship. Less pleasant situations might occur after your separation: advancement will become the main subject of dispute;

a subordinate: False accusations of favoritism may arise, as accusations of sexual harassment in the event of any separation;
-the boss: same as in the previous case can Isca false accusations of favoritism. You could be fired after separation ...

Have you seen the good and the least good, now remains to decide if you want or not a relationship at work. Good luck!

Saturday, February 20, 2010

Her fantasies

Sometimes our erotic fantasies defy any rule that applied between the sheets.

Have you ever talked with your partner about your most hidden thoughts of in terms of sex? Sometimes erotic fantasies defy any rule that applied between the sheets. Therefore, it is good that some of them do not materialize, but remain in the minds of each of us, representing catalyst turned sexual.

What erotic fantasies of your partner? If you have not heard, chances are that they correspond to those set out below:

1. Dominating

A woman loves to see how a man who can seduce and protect, begs compassion in bed. The whole scenario of the fantasy is created around your partner's body, became a sort of trophy, for which you must fight. It will reject, you will need to do everything to gain attention. Thinking that you can dominate and give intimacy brings a chance to become the "beast" that you desire in bed.

2. Schoolgirl

Fantasia "Britney Spears" is not only men's favorite. And women love too, in the sense that it is always two would put on a uniform tight and sexy, to have the "schools" in Chapter gender. But some women prefer to go further and this fancy dress costume hot teacher, who sanctioned "student" whenever they comply with them ... in bed.

3. Threesome

Whether with a man (Gangbang) or a female partner besides the couple, this fantasy is popular among the female secret thoughts, even if they do not really recognize ... Gangbang version could be cause for jealousy for a partner, although the other would offset this chapter for a lesbian scene can become interesting for him, though tend to not recognize that.

4. Voyager

Many women who enjoy watching games of love, despite what you might think, for reasons which would make it and men: it is exciting and tabuu. The feeling that you have to love the game looks when another couple or an orgy, is that it can become "bad girl" without stain his hands.

5. Exhibitionist

Thinking that can be seen during sex makes your partner to give her best. It's like as assessed by a test, so will try to present it in the best form and beat all the qualities to make it has. In addition, there may be concerns and feelings of "jealousy" that it inspires a person looks in action ... Women love to be desired and even to see conflicts between men, which are based on passion for them.

6. Victim of rape

In this case, rape "consented" has nothing to do with one whose definition we know in reality. Despite the controversies that give birth, rape fantasy is one of the favorite women in the sense that the depiction of the victim becomes exciting to the extent that talking about sex with a stranger. Obviously rape of mind may not be as aggressive as the real one but is more mysterious, unexpected, tabuu, but very exciting for your partner involves installing new element unknown on sexually. Equally problem arises and infidelity "accepted" by the fact that the victim does not oppose sex as "forced".

Friday, February 19, 2010

Men hate condom because they do not know how to choose the right size!

Why let men believe hard to put a condom during sex? For not know how to choose the right size, as defending the risk of irritation and discomfort, U.S. experts have discovered.

Condoms which do not match the size of the penis can significantly reduce the pleasure of both partners during sex. That's because, experts say, may break or slip into the action, which he led many people to give up the idea to use them.

Researchers at the University of Kentucky, United States, and those from the Kinsey Institute for Research in the area of sexuality, surveyed 436 men aged 18 and 67 years, about attitudes towards condom. Thus they found that 45% of them had to do with wrong size condoms in the last three months.

In their case, the risk that they will break or come off during sex is twice higher than normal. For the same 45% were recruited and those who complained that the condom to cause irritation. At the end of the study, scientists have observed that men who use the products just are not matching in size complain of discomfort and sexual pleasure redusa and dropped them eventually.

Men choose large condoms, they bypass the small or medium.

Statistics show that when you are faced with men choose in most cases packages of condoms emblazoned with "large", meaning large, regardless of the size of their penis. Of embarrassment or the desire to astound, they miss an essential detail: if the condom does not fit, not fit securely on the surface of the penis and the pleasure will be replaced with discomfort.

For this reason, experts say, refrain from letting them use such STD transmission.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

He wants to be just friends or something more? Can you tell the difference?

You seem complicated discerns signals to the opposite sex, you can not know for sure if a person is handsome with you because it is simply nice or "wants something more?

It is happening only to you. For example, 35% of the U.S. population shares your fate: have difficulty interpreting signals of the opposite sex.

Men with age until 30 years often wrongly interpret the behavior of women, with availability for sex confundand kindness.

Specifically, a study in Bloomington and Yale Universities, USA, showed that men 22 years mistranslation non-verbal communication with women, a greater extent than do the latter.

The study involved 280 heterosexual students who experts have shown many pictures of persons in some ways. What came out?

Men mistook friendliness of women desire to have sex at a rate of 12%. As they look on women, they have made the same confusion propotie 8%, after having viewed pictures depicting men.

No women in the photos displayed when an obviously sexual interest, men have not fared better. They misinterpreted 37% of the photos, the belief that women are just kind of image, not interested in any sexual activity. Women have made the same mistake at a rate of 32%.

Conclusion? Do not rush too quickly to put the label on the top person in front of you. A gracious attitude is not always availability for an adventure. Or vice versa!

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Learn to listen to your friends

A true friend is one who knows how to listen. If so far fail to keep your attention in a conversation or your mind "fleeing" to other ideas, here are some steps that will keep you in the eyes and ears you are destainuie.

1 Make eye contact

First, when a person asks for attention, interrupting other activities that would distract you from the conversation. Because it is an important issue, your attention should be directed to that which you speak.

Try to watch other's position. You can learn so many details about his state of mind. For example, that prevent you look in the eye may be a sign that the subject you angry enough. So, be prepared to interfere in critical moments.

2 Heading your attention to the conversation

It is time to pay attention to what you are communicating. Do not you let your thoughts to fly to your own problems. Take an exercise in focus and try to withhold as many details of the discussion. You want to meet with the same subject later and be placed in an awkward position because you dream to be open when, in fact, be careful.

3 Examine the said

Most times, people feel the need to destainuie would like to hear and think those who listen, an encouragement, advice or a compliment. Try to form an opinion about what you hear, considering also the personality that talk, how it behaves in certain situations and experiences that has gone.

It would be great if you managed to figure out what you want with you. He would like to interview some point during the discussions, or just needs someone to listen without making further comments?

4 Get rid of prejudices

Take information provided in a way as objective. What works great for you, it can be transformed into a disaster for someone else. Do not let your preconceptions to distort what you hear. Adopt an attitude as objective, based not only on their own experiences, but also on what you heard from other friends or close.

Try to visualize the situation and realize how you feel in that position. Remember that the outside is very easy to give advice, but when that experience certain feelings, can not remain as lucid.

5 Ask questions

Grab patience and try not to interrupt too often, especially when it comes to painful topics, where the first instinct is downloading tension. Otherwise you risk to interpret things wrong or even angry.

When you do not understand what was being discussed, it is time to interfere. Clarify the situation and prove thereby that you are interested in what you hear. To get closer and more at destainuie you are, formulates questions with the direct reference to what he felt when doing things.

6 Give feedback

Constant attention and interest vis-a-vis the discussion in which you were involved will help provide a very personal feedback. Try not to give answers classic already become cliches, because the guy next you will immediately give you account of lack of regard for his feelings and emotions. Give him to understand that listening and that related to those found.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Testosterone or male seduction magic secret

We present it on the main "culprit" for the animal attraction, look sexy, male potency and sex drive: testosterone. The best friend of a man's, testosterone give one the descendants of Adam a  irresistible and  conqueror air.

Testosterone and potency

Even if all men love any sex activity, not everyone can get involved in something without carry a sufficient amount of testosterone. Whatever intellectual ability, character or conduct, they will never face the mating ritual in the absence of the hormone in question. Thanks to a sufficiently high level of testosterone, a man can enjoy the maximum attraction and seduction, sexual acts satisfactory and even masturbation.

Testosterone and masturbation

During puberty, boys begin to realize their own sexuality. Those who have high levels of testosterone have a higher sexual desire for self-discovery stage, it excites more easily and more often than their counterparts with a somewhat lower level. Therefore, masturbate more often and, later, will know instinctively how should satisfy a woman.

Testosterone and physical attraction

Women judge men's sexual potential depending on the level of confidence in his own person that are to be displayed. Strong mens, know ther ables, know their forces and know how to mesh any woman. Testosterone is "to blame" because, besides the reliable, very masculine appearance which gives it a magnet attracts few representations of sex.

Testosterone and appearance

As we said above, testosterone plays a significant role and the chapter layout for men. Studies have shown that men whose testosterone level is high muscle mass have a more developed, are well developed, are in shape for sports in general are more.

Also, these men have thicker hair and distributed more extensive areas of the body, compared with men whose testosterone level is lower. And last but not least, testosterone influences and facial appearance, those in which hormone ar high have features tougher and more pronounced Adam's apple.

Monday, February 15, 2010

How to have part of a simultaneous orgasm

Men and women live and experience the erotic sensation intensity and different times. And is often very difficult to find a couple simultaneously to the same page of the book a game of sex.

But you should not panic. By understanding, communication and practice, you and your lover can reach the heights of ecstasy at the same time with ease.

Be attentive to the needs of your partner and takes account of the techniques listed below and you will get a simultaneous orgasm that will bring added magic in your bedroom.

Breathing is everything


Often the reason a woman get harder to climax during sexual intercourse is a shallow breathing. To achieve climax, pelvic area needs more oxygen to speed up heart rate and speed up your senses.

Thus, during a sexual act is trying to hurry the pace of breathing sync up with your boyfriend. Breathe through your mouth and out jerky, thereby giving more oxygen to your body.

Read your partner's gestures


Often it happens that one of the partners to make a gesture that gives the impression that would be about to end, but this move to be a wrong. To reach orgasm simultaneously requires that both partners be at the same level of arousal.

Thus, a code established before with your boyfriend meant to help you exicatie tracked the degree of the other. You can use gestures or words, you can even start a game where you give notes 1 to 10 of your sensation (1 meaning "up there much longer" and 10 "are about to finish").

Kegel exercises


This type of exercise, recognized worldwide, helps improve sexual life partners giving them the opportunity to intensify and delay the grand finale. Why not make use of this technique and you even during a sexual act?

How you do it? Simply incordeaza your muscles when your lover pubococcigieni withdraw and relax and when they join. In this way you will has complete control climax and you decide when it is time to end.

Rush breaks the job


Eventually you are the race and not participate in any contest in which one of you having to go out first to finish. Take it easy and do everything with patience and calm. A fast pace simply tired senses. Instead, exploring each other and leaving you for your bodies to accommodate the feelings felt, increased the chances of reaching those incredible final moments simultaneously.

Privacy is everything


Going to live some beautiful and intimate moments with your loved. You do not want that when you are at the pinnacle of ecstasy to wake up your mother beat you at the door, the phone call and that your boyfriend sneak a peek at the game on TV. Thus, this experience starts when you carefully remove this disturbance to you can freely enjoy a unique night.

Invent new positions

If you prefer the missionary position, was that only 9% of couples fail to reach orgasm simultaneously in this position, according to a study. What is the solution in this case? Try an auxiliary version of the position. It consists of three steps and allows the production of an orgasm simultaneously:

1. begins with the classic missionary position;
2. then your partner raises his little torso;
3. usual forward-back movement is transformed into one of the swing.

If you prefer domineering and position you above, there a trick here specially created to enhance your pleasure. All you have to do is pull your legs back, allowing your knees to be closer to the hips than chest. Then, try arches until it falls back line perpendicular to the bed. Arch format offers a powerful pressure pelvic area as climax.

Sunday, February 7, 2010

How do you know that your friend is not trustworthy?

It is said that we choose friends on our own, so we should be very careful of the choices we make in this field. First we must ensure that we keep next to new people trust to help us in difficult moments and with whom to share the joys of life.

Trust is an essential thing in any relationship, especially in a friendly. Any man who is next in your beautiful moments and also sad moments, must be confident, understanding and above all, a reliable person.

To be sure your friends are exactly those people who speak up, look at these signs that may betray a false friend, a friend can not honor your trust and respect.

1. He spoke of evil


A true friend will not judge and will not ever talk bad about you. Even if not always agree with your views or even if not always share the same tastes on various activities, that does not mean you have the right to judge.
If you find that your friend talked bad about you it's time to cataloghezi it as an unreliable person and try to avoid it in future.

2. Is selfish


We all own a lower dose or more than selfishness, but we strive to not use it in front of friends. Think like a true friend will have to be willing to make sacrifices to help in difficult moments.
If a selfish person who always put himself in the forefront, never will be with you when you ask them, but only if you would have something to gain.

3. You can not rely on it


Your friend always late when you meet? Often forget to bring you the things which you have borrowed? It promises a lot but does nothing? Such behavior show that not one person you can rely on hard times.

You need to have almost resolute people who know how to honor promises, rather than ready to take to run when you need to face consequences of their actions.

4. Is coward


A person of faith means, first of all, a strong person. If your friend gives evidence of cowardice often means you will not be able to rely on it in the future. If you want to have a man next to you that you can help, you must first see if it is able to solve their problems and especially if he can-and carry out the responsibilities.

5. Humiliate you in public


I've shared your friend some humiliating experiences that you went and he set about to tell them the amuzandu when you are in a great circle of friends? You need to know a person that you put your trust will never tend to humiliate you. Do not expect things to worsen, but tries to break away from such people.

6. The chatterbox


Test your friend telling you a secret that you have not told anyone. Invent something and see if it is able to keep a secret. If in a few days your so-called secret came out means that your new friend is not exactly discreet person, where it can be inferred that does not deserve your trust.


True friendship is based on affection, trust and respect. No compromise when you choose your entourage. As long as you provide and respect other's wishes should you expect to be treated equally as such do not settle for less.

Saturday, February 6, 2010

How to avoid compromises in life

Desires, ideals and our goals in life are often marred by compromises. Whether I was disappointed and not put price on personal happiness, whether we want very much a work and do anything to meet us, each of us choose a time in life to make a compromise.

Where to go? In a life half lived, regret and all questions that begin with "what would have happened if ... Well, if I compromise? ". Eventually what we choose to indulge in a situation where we do not like, why compromise when you do not put price on benefits and what can we do to not let us controlled by them? The answer to these questions and more find reading to as how to prevent compromises to affect your life in a negative way.


Reasons leading to compromises

The reasons why we choose to compromise life are endless. But some of them are valid for each of us. What is it?

• Wish to assert fast
• Vanity
• Cowardice
• Feeling of inferiority
• Past disappointments
• Convenience
• Fear of loneliness
• Mercy


Factors that facilitate compromises

At one point, with these reasons that dwell in all of us, juggles external factors and so we come to surrender to the pressure. What are the most common external factors?

• Family
• Antourage
• Lover

How to avoid these compromises?



1. Learning the usefulness of "no". Many times we are afraid to say "no", the fear was not upset anyone. But there are cases in which the "no" is imperative to not fall into the trap of compromise. If not used to saying 'no' when you are asked something, think: "If somebody says I throw in the well, say yes?" Moreover, if you choose to answer "yes" to all favors you are asking, not only do you multiply the number of requests and that's because you have earned the reputation of "the man who does not deny anything.

2. To learn to feel guilty. Whether you upset my mother, have you argued with boyfriend / girlfriend or with friends, upload your consciousness with no qualms, especially if you know you were right. Stop reproaches and guilt feeling.

If you continue to feel bad for everything you do, you risk that others consider you a weak person and easy to handle, knowing your weak point. Better yet, keep up the position when you know you're right and not to give impulse to say: "Well, be you, just because you tired to argue.

3. Learning to be motivated. Many times we get to make compromises and I let others lead us life only because we do not feel motivated. Find your goals and try to follow. Do not feel discouraged when you need to make a change and not run of the unknown.

4. Learning to be mature. We want to have everything and not accept the concessions. But in reality things are not so. We can not have everything and must learn to resign ourselves with this thought. Better yet, give evidence of maturity, make the difference between attainable and the unattainable things and try to follow only those who know that they can perform.

5. Learning to be courageous. Stop the lead of fear. As a powerful tool of compromises, by fear, do not just to facilitate their installation. Do not let down with fear and failure. Learn to get up and go again when obstacle in life trying to destroy you. Think about it: "What can not kill me, makes me stronger". Find your strength as inner and always go with your head up and eyes forward on the road of life.

Friday, February 5, 2010

Valentine's Day gifts that cost nothing

Who said that giving a gift to the effect, you need money? A little imagination and lots and lots of love are the perfect ingredients for a gift for Valentine's Day. If you're still skeptical, following an exercise of imagination: What if your partner would you give to a massage, can be spoiled all day or carrying out any wishes? Here are 20 ideas that you can put in place by Valentine. Effect guaranteed!

1. Sing her a love song

2. Giving her a sensual massage

3. Send an online greeting

4. Serve her breakfast in bed

5. Spoil him / her all day

6. Invite him / her to dance

7. Invite him / her for a romantic ride

8. Create her a handmade card or gift

9. Invite him / her to watch a love film by candlelight

10. Read her love poems

11. Give her a drawing made by you

12. Make it a dedication to a radio station

13. Give her an object that has sentimental value for you

14. Give her an opportunity to fulfill has a desire

15. Write to him "I love you" on the bathroom mirror steamed after the morning shower

16. Whisper's "I love you!"

17. Dance for her

18. Perform some sexy snapshots with you and send them on mail

19. Giving a whole day just for him / her

20. Ask him / her how would love to be kissed and fulfills these desires

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Did you know ...

You think you know everything about sex? Read this!

1. Ithyphallophobia calls it someone  fear of seeing, to have and to think of the penis.

2. In a survey conducted by ... the extent, the most popular flavor of edible underwear is cherry intimate and not chocolate, as previously believed.

3. In Aztec culture, avocados were considered a fruit with sexual connotations so strong that virgin girls were not allowed to be near him.

4. Marilyn Monroe, sex-symbol-twentieth century, would have confessed to a friend about the fact that although he had many sexual partners, has never experienced orgasm.

5. The shelf life of a latex condom is about 2 years.

6. Fetish to feel small insects moving in their genital area is called formicophilia.

7. The highest level of homosexuality among mammals, males were found in bats.

8. According to some surveys, women with higher education more easily accept oral sex (and make them do), than those who have left school.

9. A man's beard grows fastest when anticipates sexual acts.

10. Long ago it was believed that masturbation can lead to blindness, mental disorders, various other serious illness or even sudden death. Current research but certainly refute such speculation.

11. Over the life of a man ejaculate approximately 18 gallons of semen, containing a trillion sperm.

12. The first couple that was shown sitting in bed on prime time television program, were ... Fred and Wilma Flintstone.

13. On the biochemical, sex is equivalent to the consumption of significant quantities of chocolate.

14. People and dolphins are the only species that have sex for pleasure.

15. Each normal web pages a corresponding other 5 pages with pornographic content.

16. The word fuck is actually an acronym. Dates from the period when Britain was subpopulata because of war and outbreak of severe epidemics. King at that time issued an order, which order the population to grow ... "Fornicate Under Comand of the King".

17. In general, men think about sex every 7 seconds, and women ... Mmm, where was I?

18. "Venus notice" is the scientific term for so-called sexual position "missionary".

19. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. It is 10 times more effective than Valium's.

20. Sex is a natural antihistamine. Among other things, reduce asthma and high fever.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

The 10 Commandments of Sex's

5 of her, 5 of him:

Women:

1. Have no complex: Size does not matter, battery life yes!

Under the motto "Why take a whole pig for meat?" Club women disappointed by their partners penis, thank the man who invented the vibrator. Not only 'toy' it is a good sexual partner, but may be Carata anywhere, without (it) bored / tired / blame etc.. Etc.. Etc.

2. NOT treat a woman like an inflatable doll: It's cool to do it in acrobatic position, with the mention that "material" is mostly frail women and non-flexible, even when shaking like a bow under the pressure of fat.

I slammed into the wall not believing that cold concrete acts as an aphrodisiac and does not sit on furniture in the idea that a smooth surface can not jump chips by friction. I do not pluck the breasts and not push as if you discovered that the area between my legs is made of rubber. Understand that actresses are paid to the climax gems.

3. NOT wasting your 'seed' on 'dry land': if you insist on my face finish, be prepared for adverse reactions.

Do not do it without me know, that might be to temporarily blind or to regurgitez of reflex or drown and coughing at night when you sleep like a baby ... It is said that seminal fluid is excellent for skin. None commented, just as most women prefer to test all sorts of nonsense from trade odoriferous skin care. Nothing compares to the satisfaction of giving a lot of money on creams to firm and later finds that are not suitable.

4. NOT give lessons in style when you're completely naked, in compromising position: We have no problem with "doggy" but that now has his own style with this position ( "doggy style")?

"Goat" is not favorable position for the women posed in style. High heels 'of the Jimmy Choo' stands out best in the picture "legs".

5. Do not kill the passion: No, the terms "wash up", "Take the trash," "Do clean!" not part of the 'dirty language' that you like you use in bed.

Maybe accept 'dirty language' when I play the maid to bed, but I refuse to accept orders from you when you are tired, sad, stressed, etc. to menstruation.

Men:

1. Do not you do "chip carving: job with 'wiener' smacks of feminism. And if you have befriended so well with the vibrator, then the vibrator will be more than happy to lend your card or his car.

2. NOT regret you have not tried: It's cool to do it in the position of "missionary" with the mention that you are over 40 years, a boring job, 2-3 children and I struggle hemorrhoids.

3. You do not doubt: If you please close your eyes? If you close your eyes, I think you might you like? If you believe me, I?

4. NOT cry, if you see on the net: No one takes pictures while you have sex. Not even understand why you thought this ... Want to ask me something?

5. NOT tired doing nothing: Make up your mind! I think about sex every time I see and I could be confusing ...

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Alone on Valentine's Day?

Lovers know what to do on their birthday. But how will celebrate nolovers?

If all we have adopted Valentine's Day, we could even invent a holiday meant to counteract orecum "boom" surrounding inimioarelor during this period and on those who do not give back to them ... Perhaps the men themselves would vote now more than ever to formalize the "Bachelor's Day" ...

Although slightly crooked nose will lonely you will see around a lot of couples, may find comfort even in their emotional status: to be alone is not always a disadvantage. In court utimut = freedom and solitude from this equation, we propose some suggestions "nolovers" to pass safely over Valentine's Day.

1. Organize a party in honor of all your "ancoupled" friends and feel free to have fun as you want. After all, is a context suitable to meet a woman (or more) that you could please ... And all without having to give explanations about torque partner issues which it may consider inappropriate.

2. If people buy the hearts and cookies for "Valentine" at this time, you go out and buy some things for you. Shopping therapy can be effective even when you propose to ignore certain details that you cast a damper. Possibly go accompanied by one of your friends or a buddy or two, you could help with suggestions.

3. Go on a trip and visit some special places in the country, where you can collect various souvenirs. Important is that if you get bored, even get bored doing ... something. Unlike women, men rarely go through depression pre / post Valentine's Day, so you will be more easy to find activities to occupy your time that you could spend thinking about that you have a stable partner.

4. Invite your amica for dinner or a movie. To get a woman in town, not necessarily to be partners of the couple. If you know quite well, you know both that such a meeting even Valentine would not be construed otherwise than it is ...

5. Ultimately, send your gift for yourself and then unpack them in front of other people who might wonder who is lucky that you've failed to crack. Whatever you do, it's important to keep your sense of humor and your busy with useful activities.

Monday, February 1, 2010

Intelligent women make quality sex

Yes, you read correctly! Women with a higher IQ enjoys sex games more hard than the fair sex representatives have lower intelligence. The reason? According to researchers in London, from King College, a woman with a high IQ knows what to do to achieve orgasm and to satisfy their partner.

According to a study involving 2,000 women aged between 18 and 83 years is not enough for a woman to be beautiful to get what she wants in bed. Participants in the study were divided into two categories: women with a low coefficient of intelligence and with a coefficient above average intelligence. They were asked to rate on a scale with seven steps, how often reach orgasm.

At the end of the study, only 40 percent of women with a low IQ orgasm and 30 percent of this category touching climax difficult or never.

On the other side, 85 percent of participants with a high coefficient of intelligence replied that they orgasm every time, and 50 percent of these women that there are sex parties where at least two orgasms in one night.

The study, the researchers concluded that intelligence is key to success for a rewarding sexual life.
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