We two and a sex toy!

"Is something wrong in using sex toys?", Wonders one NewFokka reader. "I do not know how to get into discussion topic with my boyfriend who became a deja vu in the bedroom", it complains, explaining that he wants to get out of "routine unbearable. How to approach the subject without her lover to feel offended? NF comes with tips.

Sex toys are not contrary to morals way property and the Stone Age is over long ago. But it is imperative to speak before you buy a toy, to avoid inconvenience of any kind.

The approach of the subject may be varied, from the attitude of "What would it be if ..." "I would love ...", "Last night I dreamed ..." to "I have a gift for us ..." or "Go or both separately and try to surprise each other ... "etc..

Even though sex toys are associated with solitary activity, in fact they are especially important ingredients in the life of the couple. Most sex toys are divided into two groups - sex toys for men and sex toys for women.

Your partner should not feel offended in any way, but if you feel self-esteem and confidence in his masculinity is not his strong points is obigatoriu torque simultaneous introduction of both kinds of toys.

Her fantasies

Sometimes our erotic fantasies defy any rule that applied between the sheets.

Have you ever talked with your partner about your most hidden thoughts of in terms of sex? Sometimes erotic fantasies defy any rule that applied between the sheets. Therefore, it is good that some of them do not materialize, but remain in the minds of each of us, representing catalyst turned sexual.

What erotic fantasies of your partner? If you have not heard, chances are that they correspond to those set out below:

1. Dominating

A woman loves to see how a man who can seduce and protect, begs compassion in bed. The whole scenario of the fantasy is created around your partner's body, became a sort of trophy, for which you must fight. It will reject, you will need to do everything to gain attention. Thinking that you can dominate and give intimacy brings a chance to become the "beast" that you desire in bed.

2. Schoolgirl

Fantasia "Britney Spears" is not only men's favorite. And women love too, in the sense that it is always two would put on a uniform tight and sexy, to have the "schools" in Chapter gender. But some women prefer to go further and this fancy dress costume hot teacher, who sanctioned "student" whenever they comply with them ... in bed.

3. Threesome

Whether with a man (Gangbang) or a female partner besides the couple, this fantasy is popular among the female secret thoughts, even if they do not really recognize ... Gangbang version could be cause for jealousy for a partner, although the other would offset this chapter for a lesbian scene can become interesting for him, though tend to not recognize that.

4. Voyager

Many women who enjoy watching games of love, despite what you might think, for reasons which would make it and men: it is exciting and tabuu. The feeling that you have to love the game looks when another couple or an orgy, is that it can become "bad girl" without stain his hands.

5. Exhibitionist

Thinking that can be seen during sex makes your partner to give her best. It's like as assessed by a test, so will try to present it in the best form and beat all the qualities to make it has. In addition, there may be concerns and feelings of "jealousy" that it inspires a person looks in action ... Women love to be desired and even to see conflicts between men, which are based on passion for them.

6. Victim of rape

In this case, rape "consented" has nothing to do with one whose definition we know in reality. Despite the controversies that give birth, rape fantasy is one of the favorite women in the sense that the depiction of the victim becomes exciting to the extent that talking about sex with a stranger. Obviously rape of mind may not be as aggressive as the real one but is more mysterious, unexpected, tabuu, but very exciting for your partner involves installing new element unknown on sexually. Equally problem arises and infidelity "accepted" by the fact that the victim does not oppose sex as "forced".

How to have part of a simultaneous orgasm

Men and women live and experience the erotic sensation intensity and different times. And is often very difficult to find a couple simultaneously to the same page of the book a game of sex.

But you should not panic. By understanding, communication and practice, you and your lover can reach the heights of ecstasy at the same time with ease.

Be attentive to the needs of your partner and takes account of the techniques listed below and you will get a simultaneous orgasm that will bring added magic in your bedroom.

Breathing is everything


Often the reason a woman get harder to climax during sexual intercourse is a shallow breathing. To achieve climax, pelvic area needs more oxygen to speed up heart rate and speed up your senses.

Thus, during a sexual act is trying to hurry the pace of breathing sync up with your boyfriend. Breathe through your mouth and out jerky, thereby giving more oxygen to your body.

Read your partner's gestures


Often it happens that one of the partners to make a gesture that gives the impression that would be about to end, but this move to be a wrong. To reach orgasm simultaneously requires that both partners be at the same level of arousal.

Thus, a code established before with your boyfriend meant to help you exicatie tracked the degree of the other. You can use gestures or words, you can even start a game where you give notes 1 to 10 of your sensation (1 meaning "up there much longer" and 10 "are about to finish").

Kegel exercises


This type of exercise, recognized worldwide, helps improve sexual life partners giving them the opportunity to intensify and delay the grand finale. Why not make use of this technique and you even during a sexual act?

How you do it? Simply incordeaza your muscles when your lover pubococcigieni withdraw and relax and when they join. In this way you will has complete control climax and you decide when it is time to end.

Rush breaks the job


Eventually you are the race and not participate in any contest in which one of you having to go out first to finish. Take it easy and do everything with patience and calm. A fast pace simply tired senses. Instead, exploring each other and leaving you for your bodies to accommodate the feelings felt, increased the chances of reaching those incredible final moments simultaneously.

Privacy is everything


Going to live some beautiful and intimate moments with your loved. You do not want that when you are at the pinnacle of ecstasy to wake up your mother beat you at the door, the phone call and that your boyfriend sneak a peek at the game on TV. Thus, this experience starts when you carefully remove this disturbance to you can freely enjoy a unique night.

Invent new positions

If you prefer the missionary position, was that only 9% of couples fail to reach orgasm simultaneously in this position, according to a study. What is the solution in this case? Try an auxiliary version of the position. It consists of three steps and allows the production of an orgasm simultaneously:

1. begins with the classic missionary position;
2. then your partner raises his little torso;
3. usual forward-back movement is transformed into one of the swing.

If you prefer domineering and position you above, there a trick here specially created to enhance your pleasure. All you have to do is pull your legs back, allowing your knees to be closer to the hips than chest. Then, try arches until it falls back line perpendicular to the bed. Arch format offers a powerful pressure pelvic area as climax.

Perfect scene for sex

In a relationship, it is quite easy, at a time to put your sex life behind the scenes, especially if labor issues, taxes, and less sexy things come into play.

The following tips are for those who want to revive the passion in the bedroom, or for those who wish to see the girl partner astonishment.

Rent a room

What is great in the rent a room at the hotel is that you should not worry about chocolate bedding destroyed, nor have to abstain was not crying because you still do not see neighbors, never.

Therefore, preparing the room for night of sex that will follow: the right light, perhaps some scented candles, music appropriate bubble bath ready and scented oils, a relaxing massage, or why not erotic.

Send an invitation and an outfit

Send an invitation and a gift that contain an outfit: something short and black would go great. It's sexy and shows extremely well, and your hand will slide easily on satin material.

Food right

To complete the atmosphere is needed and appropriate food. Champagne and strawberries, chocolate, water and what do you think you need.

Surprise her

Before getting in the room, if a girl is pretty open-minded and adventurous, would be the perfect prelude to going to a striptease. If not in this category, then go first in a club to dance. If you do not like to move to the rhythm of music, ask her to dance for you. The idea is to awaken the passion that lies within you.

Break the monotony of sexual

If your partner is usual to have sex only in a certain position, shake things up tonight. If you usually do it in missionary position, doggy style try tonight. If foreplay consists in kisses and caresses, tonight I cock closer to your mouth to kiss him. Giving her oral sex in your turn, and while you lick her clit stick two fingers into the vagina and search the G spot. Touch it, kiss it was not as usual.

Sex and health

Erotic Exercises
With all that sex means less power consumption compared to aerobic, for example, though he may be training in maintaining figure. But depends on the intensity with which it is lived sex, since orgasm cause a contraction of the muscles of the arms, legs and abdomen.

Also, breathing and heart rate redouble when sexual arousal, just as happens in case of training carried out on land or in gyms. Another benefit that you will enjoy the most is a "slip" slow in a deep sleep following sexual intercourse.

Since sex requires resistance has been shown that active people are more likely to get a sexual satisfaction than sedentary people, just moving the seat of the chair home office. Conclusion: Take Action to have a happy sex life! Exercise regularly executed will improve your sex life because it helps implicitly and strengthening muscles, the proper functioning of the cardiovascular system and the maintenance of mental health.

A healthier heart
A study on a sample of 99 middle-aged men showed that men with sexually active who have sex at least twice a week presents a lower risk of making a heart attack in the next 10 years compared with men who have sex less often. This study was published in the Journal of Epidemiolagy and Community Health "in Britain.

Benefits for her
Some studies attest that sexual activity may prevent endometriosis, a gynecological problem encountered in the pretty women and characterized by the presence of fragments of uterine lining (endometrium) outside their normal location. This can cause pelvic pain, reaching in some extreme cases even to infertility. The study published in a newspaper investigation in gynecology and obstetrics has shown that sexually active women in the menstrual cycle presents opportunities to down 1.5% to face with endometriosis compared with women who refuse sexual intercourse during the menstrual cycle. Why? Uterine contractions during intercourse, especially orgasm, helps eliminate the womb of the fragments of the uterine lining.

Benefits for him
After a period in which it was believed that sexual intercourse increases the risk of prostate cancer, new research in the area have destroyed this myth, demonstrating that frequent ejaculation protects prostate cancer. So, men who ejaculate more than five times per week show a decreased risk by up to 30% to confront this issue, compared with those who ejaculate from 4-7 times a month. During ejaculation, cancer-producing substances are eliminated by the seminal fluid thereby protecting the prostate.

Eliminate Stress
A default and happy sex life improves mood. Orgasm gained through sexual intercourse with a partner or masturbation will eliminate stress because it is issued during a hormone which creates an emotional balance and a feeling of total relaxation. The researchers compared the action to "recharge" the body through orgasm with that of "reboot" of a computer. But attention! An excessive focus on peak puctului may induce a state of stress. Let your frustrations aside and look at the act as a mutual erotic pleasure, regardless of how you conducted.

Erotic dance with Tila Tequila

Known television star Tila Tequila has recently launched a new Internet video recording, in which provocative dancing, dressed only in panties and bra. Even at a time, Tila Tequila drop the bra and its strong silicone breast massage.

The star of this initiative shows sexy had to be revenge on Shawne Merriman, her former boyfriend, who has a livid when he found out that Tila is a little bisexual.
The actress erotic game is interrupted at some point the fact that Tila Tequila is tumbled on the chair, even when they prepare to open their legs generous. Tila Tequila turns but a professional in the dirty movies, and continuing rising up and giving salacious.