Sexuality is 10% technique and 90% ambient

Between the daily bustle, stress and monotony of life of the couple, your libido has definitely suffered. Time to act! Learn how to awaken your senses and leave you as gone away for a sex life without problems!

Prepare decor
Red curtains and linen, lamps strategically positioned, scented candles, rose petals - here are the ingredients of a successful sexual life. If you have not yet convinced, was that sexuality is 10% technique and 90% atmosphere. So, try to apply the principles of Feng Shui and remember and essential flavors of rose, jasmine and ylang-ylang - are natural aphrodisiac.

Explore your body
If masturbation sound too hard, we will replace with one more appropriate: comfort. Yes, it has to do to awaken your senses and erogenous points. Apply your own body oil or perfumed moisturizer, a lubricant gel or fruit. Use them to help your partner to put your blood in motion and take you to the heights of pleasure!

Live your fantasies
On the sexual fantasies are "best friends", that helps you escape from the real world and enter a world where the only thing that matters is the pleasure. So why deny it? Get inside any character you want, imagine you all, everything is allowed!

Breathe
To get rid of stress but also to access the pleasure, learning to breathe correctly. With mouth open, breathing umflandu your abdomen slowly and deeply. You will help the senses, and activating microcirculation oxigenand erogenous zones. Then, when the pleasure starts to grow, breathing serves as accelerator, so do not hesitate to breathe rapidly and, why not, to mistake.

And don't think of anything!
Issues, thoughts, things that have to wait panic! Now is your moment and your partner, so you must focus only on pleasure. Think about just how to make you feel better and how to satisfy your partner.

How are you let gone away?

Her fantasies

Sometimes our erotic fantasies defy any rule that applied between the sheets.

Have you ever talked with your partner about your most hidden thoughts of in terms of sex? Sometimes erotic fantasies defy any rule that applied between the sheets. Therefore, it is good that some of them do not materialize, but remain in the minds of each of us, representing catalyst turned sexual.

What erotic fantasies of your partner? If you have not heard, chances are that they correspond to those set out below:

1. Dominating

A woman loves to see how a man who can seduce and protect, begs compassion in bed. The whole scenario of the fantasy is created around your partner's body, became a sort of trophy, for which you must fight. It will reject, you will need to do everything to gain attention. Thinking that you can dominate and give intimacy brings a chance to become the "beast" that you desire in bed.

2. Schoolgirl

Fantasia "Britney Spears" is not only men's favorite. And women love too, in the sense that it is always two would put on a uniform tight and sexy, to have the "schools" in Chapter gender. But some women prefer to go further and this fancy dress costume hot teacher, who sanctioned "student" whenever they comply with them ... in bed.

3. Threesome

Whether with a man (Gangbang) or a female partner besides the couple, this fantasy is popular among the female secret thoughts, even if they do not really recognize ... Gangbang version could be cause for jealousy for a partner, although the other would offset this chapter for a lesbian scene can become interesting for him, though tend to not recognize that.

4. Voyager

Many women who enjoy watching games of love, despite what you might think, for reasons which would make it and men: it is exciting and tabuu. The feeling that you have to love the game looks when another couple or an orgy, is that it can become "bad girl" without stain his hands.

5. Exhibitionist

Thinking that can be seen during sex makes your partner to give her best. It's like as assessed by a test, so will try to present it in the best form and beat all the qualities to make it has. In addition, there may be concerns and feelings of "jealousy" that it inspires a person looks in action ... Women love to be desired and even to see conflicts between men, which are based on passion for them.

6. Victim of rape

In this case, rape "consented" has nothing to do with one whose definition we know in reality. Despite the controversies that give birth, rape fantasy is one of the favorite women in the sense that the depiction of the victim becomes exciting to the extent that talking about sex with a stranger. Obviously rape of mind may not be as aggressive as the real one but is more mysterious, unexpected, tabuu, but very exciting for your partner involves installing new element unknown on sexually. Equally problem arises and infidelity "accepted" by the fact that the victim does not oppose sex as "forced".

Holidays without sex?

You can't because you're surrounded by friends and family, not allowed because bring bad luck, you have no time, because everybody wants something from you ...... How do you have sex on holidays?

Knowing that stress is quite high in this period, sex would be one of the preferred methods for relaxation. But, considering the constant bustle around you, sometimes you let yourself be easier to prey temptations. You need some good plans in place for that year will not pass without some of the most beautiful gift for holidays: your partner.

1. Wish List

Make a list of at least three things would you like to do together: 1. something you want to do with her, 2. something that she would do to you 3. something unique that you do together. Then set a date when you will put out all these things and organize your schedule so that you succeed. After all sex is an activity that takes time, so you should never exaggerate the impression that trying to make plans in advance. If your fantasies involve toys or sweets, do not leave your shopping on the last hundred meters!

2. Choosing appropriate

Christmas is going around loved ones, so it might have failed in terms of privacy. If you go to the mountains or out to dinner and book a private booth, you solved the problem, and satisfaction comes in the idea that you did something bizarre: sex in public space. But if you go to visit you or you will receive guests at home, we must act very discreetly and quickly. Hoped that she does not have a problem with sex "on the run", because obviously you could not start tantric rituals when there is the possibility of being caught. Make sure you lock the door of the room and the bed is not squeaky, even if in fact everyone will know what you have retired there. Although you may see smiles silky ... they will appreciate your discretion.

3. Inventing a sex code

When you wnat to talk about sex with your partner and can not because of other persons present nearby, you felt it began to make signs in the hope that at some point she will understand what you mean. If you hate to play them and occasionally mislead others, create your own sexual code. In this way you will understand exactly when, how and where you can meet to spend a few moments together. You will not bother anyone and everyone will be happy. The code may contain any terms apparently common, of whose join to indicate new meanings known only to you. It can be really funny at first.

4. A rule of Christmas: Love yourself!

You might have some sex, but is just as likely to stay on the outside ... In this case, do not despair, but be confident in the chances that you probably will bring the new year on sexually. Until then, the trust uses the advantage of having two hands long enough to touch your private areas ... In this case should not forget discretion. Although you would not have problems with creaky bad, there are enough chances to be caught while you declare love, that would be more embarrassing if you were discovered having sex with a woman.

Do you dare?

Men think about perverse sex frequently, but rarely they put it in practice. The reasons are multiple and essentially concerns the structure of the male, slow in adapting to changes and eager heading under strict control to maintain a routine fact reached. So what's all this, why so many headaches? The classic example of sex is kinky sex orgy.

Once deployed, can cause real nightmares or trauma, but there are enough people who, fed up with the same ritual in the bedroom, stretch out in this way. The procedure is privileged and desired by men because it is promoted in magazines and porn and consumers do not bother than to imitate, not to train and imagination or to take its precious time with a careful and obviously useful documentation.

We have news and the other side of the ring. The news that actually shook the ground is that the male world including women channel their thoughts (oooo! Yes, yes!) Toward kinky sex. The study conducted on a representative sample of women (the number in 2000 demonstrates that 90% of them reject the subject, 70% would be tempted to try something kinky, and 21.5% felt very excited at the prospect of sexual orgies.

Interestingly, if for a couple welded dream can come true and if there are possibilities to apply a different kind of kinky sex, cleaner, more coercive, more elaborate and more fun, therefore less traumatic. A tip for starters: do not call kinky sex altfeldecit in a classic manner, think the new approach as a fun, a string of nonsense, and not as a great perversion.

So, here are a few solutions Demonstration applicable. In support of their Fri. including frank statements, without irony, as women who wanted to share their experience erotic.

DSSM

Initials mean: domination, bondage, submission and a bit of masochism, all managed, of course, in doses ingested. Every man wants at some point that his sexual life to improve and this means primarily run routine, finding an unusual ingredient that is run by the erotic act in a charming, warm and intacarat.

Submission on sex is definitely something exciting and is a form of non-traditional sex. Women can thus be encouraged to perceive as objects of desire, of pleasure and a spiral pseudosclavie and some become a part of a game result of this. There are, of course, the newcomers feel overwhelmed erotica.

It comes with the feeling of the trap, which many women find him very exciting. A warning needed! It should be borne in mind that any gesture made brutally intimate may cause serious disturbances. It is therefore appropriate to consider some time, more specifically sexual moment of opening, very important in the mentality of individuals.

To prevents accidents, differences of opinions, feelings confused, have chosen the perfect moment to improve the sexual practices of a perverse type. We do the turn: I dominate him and then change it. I like feeling that can do anything with me and I have no power to stop him. It's about confidence here, and that is sexy, told us Dera, 26, a social worker.

At the beginning:

While doing your usual crap use your hands to keep them in the vent on its overhead. If you feel that he liked (you can ask) as you did the first step in the future dare more. Choose a tie, a silk scarf or a dress. Using a weak tie knots and give your imagination free vent. Overwhelms your partner more slowly than in the case of a classic sexual act.

At one point beating can pigment things, because this type of return is very exciting. How hard to be hand and place its application depends on each person. This practice is directly related to feelings of pride and can be reached even to violence. Start with a light hand. If you ride, consider it as a tacit approval.

In time:

Kinky sex can be dangerous if practiced by someone inexperienced and too eager. It is better to be prepared with some knowledge, so that no one have to suffer. Before proceeding with the facts, cadets must agree on a safe word, to notify you each time you feel that is enough. He says it can not be a part of fantasy. Make sure that the words to finalize fantasy is something totally out of context, such as peace, rest, time-out etc..

Motor, Action

Although this practice is known, few women (15% of survey's) and were immortalized on film oddities of the bedroom, probably from fear and suspicion towards the partner. Countless stories that made round the world, about the events and similar situations, is an extra excuse to avoid this kind of application.

Tip: even if the partner is cooperative, give the box immediately after you finish or destroy it after you watched it enough fun. If he likes to keep some things hidden in a separate box away from other films.

At the beginning:

Uses the camera only with the consent of your partner to avoid possible arguments and verbal assaults. You can reach a joint solution and the beginning you choose a small size device, less intimidating for beginners. That would seem to not exist.

While

Sex on film is captured beautifully by experienced, but may be hard to watch. Never use more light, creating shadows and are simply unattractive. Furthermore, you are not on a plateau of shooting, but in a home where there is true intimacy. In this video game, virtually all women find their satisfaction that are a lot of sounds that excite them, and men are very visually stimulated.

Carmen, 30, estate agent: my beloved camera connects directly to TV, record without action. We are curious to look at us, caught in the whirlpool of passion. Feelings of affiliation and dominance are amazing, and it seems that we are both of the protagonists of filmporno, which greatly enhances both carrying foreplay, as well as the end of deliberately delay, giving a new face orgasm.

A role, a stage

Masks and games company are far more easy than experiment unastfel difficult for any man who respects. Most women think it's needed are a strong suspension of disbelief and that is not really pleasant experience, many couples known (chief secretary, teacher and student, stripper-customer, etc.). Are played from the idea that someone is in control and the other is at his mercy.

This gives a strong impetus, including normal relations, and enables women and men alike to manage fantasies, so that you do not feel any discomfort and vulnerability.

At the beginning:

Buy-and partner a sexy outfit that will make them feel strong and clear siren crazy. For a flicker of emotion in public, go to a club. Arrived at a difference of 20 minutes one another and trying to hang, pretending you do not know her. If you can invented a scenario, the better.

Thus, to be more fun, you can choose to have other names, occupations, another past. Have you always wanted to have a strong impact of foreign women? Now you can have, because there is something exciting to the public to reveal your sexuality.

In time:

Grab tricks in clubs. Wears clothes that she did not give up maivazut and another perfume that sense of smell is closely linked to memory and you want her to temporarily forget who you are. Wants you to get euphoric, not hysteria. It is appropriate to laugh the situation, but is a better idea to display your exciting and sexy. If, for example, work in sales, plays a simple traveler who goes on a visit to a poor housewives. Try not to propose an Oscar in your career, but a great game of sex with your girlfriend.

Mary, teacher, 31 years: It started as a joke. Both chuckle when we arranged a meeting in a bar, as if it was for the first time that we saw. When I realized how much change the dynamics of the default scenario in November, we have prepared themselves for one of the most memorable sex parties we ever had.

I always wanted to be a tease capricious, but I met very early sutetul pair. Role allowed me to reveal another side of me, which we enjoyed both. Now we can call on that woman inside my light schedule after almost a month.