"Is something wrong in using sex toys?", Wonders one NewFokka reader. "I do not know how to get into discussion topic with my boyfriend who became a deja vu in the bedroom", it complains, explaining that he wants to get out of "routine unbearable. How to approach the subject without her lover to feel offended? NF comes with tips.
Sex toys are not contrary to morals way property and the Stone Age is over long ago. But it is imperative to speak before you buy a toy, to avoid inconvenience of any kind.
The approach of the subject may be varied, from the attitude of "What would it be if ..." "I would love ...", "Last night I dreamed ..." to "I have a gift for us ..." or "Go or both separately and try to surprise each other ... "etc..
Even though sex toys are associated with solitary activity, in fact they are especially important ingredients in the life of the couple. Most sex toys are divided into two groups - sex toys for men and sex toys for women.
Your partner should not feel offended in any way, but if you feel self-esteem and confidence in his masculinity is not his strong points is obigatoriu torque simultaneous introduction of both kinds of toys.
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Showing posts with label orgasm. Show all posts
Friday, February 26, 2010
We two and a sex toy!
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Thursday, February 25, 2010
Rings ... for mans!
If You want to make a special gift and you gave your beloved winter in a sex shop, I advise you to be wary of. Some are more complicated than they seem at first sight, so it would be well documented before you give free rein fantasies!
Penis rings are made of steel or rubber and resembles a garnish or an adjustable belt material. They sit in the penis idea to keep a strong erection. How it works?
Well, ring "strangle" male sex organ, preventing blood flow out of the penis, once entered in this area. Make sure to sit it on its intended place before the penis to harden! Finally, many men enjoy pleasant sensations generated by the pressure exerted by the ring on the penis and scrotum.
Tips for use:
- Never use them if you take aspirin, anticoagulants or other drugs for blood thinning;
- That prevents blood flow, the rings are not suitable for men who have problems with clotting, bleeding easily, suffer from neurological or vascular disease;
- Caution is advised for those with diabetes;
- Does not apply to areas inflamed, infected or desensitizing;
- No longer use if you notice discomfort, pain, bruises, bleeding or desensitisation to first use;
- Rings are not used as a treatment for impotence!
Penis rings are made of steel or rubber and resembles a garnish or an adjustable belt material. They sit in the penis idea to keep a strong erection. How it works?
Well, ring "strangle" male sex organ, preventing blood flow out of the penis, once entered in this area. Make sure to sit it on its intended place before the penis to harden! Finally, many men enjoy pleasant sensations generated by the pressure exerted by the ring on the penis and scrotum.
Tips for use:
- Never use them if you take aspirin, anticoagulants or other drugs for blood thinning;
- That prevents blood flow, the rings are not suitable for men who have problems with clotting, bleeding easily, suffer from neurological or vascular disease;
- Caution is advised for those with diabetes;
- Does not apply to areas inflamed, infected or desensitizing;
- No longer use if you notice discomfort, pain, bruises, bleeding or desensitisation to first use;
- Rings are not used as a treatment for impotence!
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Monday, February 15, 2010
How to have part of a simultaneous orgasm
Men and women live and experience the erotic sensation intensity and different times. And is often very difficult to find a couple simultaneously to the same page of the book a game of sex.
But you should not panic. By understanding, communication and practice, you and your lover can reach the heights of ecstasy at the same time with ease.
Be attentive to the needs of your partner and takes account of the techniques listed below and you will get a simultaneous orgasm that will bring added magic in your bedroom.
Breathing is everything
Often the reason a woman get harder to climax during sexual intercourse is a shallow breathing. To achieve climax, pelvic area needs more oxygen to speed up heart rate and speed up your senses.
Thus, during a sexual act is trying to hurry the pace of breathing sync up with your boyfriend. Breathe through your mouth and out jerky, thereby giving more oxygen to your body.
Read your partner's gestures
Often it happens that one of the partners to make a gesture that gives the impression that would be about to end, but this move to be a wrong. To reach orgasm simultaneously requires that both partners be at the same level of arousal.
Thus, a code established before with your boyfriend meant to help you exicatie tracked the degree of the other. You can use gestures or words, you can even start a game where you give notes 1 to 10 of your sensation (1 meaning "up there much longer" and 10 "are about to finish").
Kegel exercises
This type of exercise, recognized worldwide, helps improve sexual life partners giving them the opportunity to intensify and delay the grand finale. Why not make use of this technique and you even during a sexual act?
How you do it? Simply incordeaza your muscles when your lover pubococcigieni withdraw and relax and when they join. In this way you will has complete control climax and you decide when it is time to end.
Rush breaks the job
Eventually you are the race and not participate in any contest in which one of you having to go out first to finish. Take it easy and do everything with patience and calm. A fast pace simply tired senses. Instead, exploring each other and leaving you for your bodies to accommodate the feelings felt, increased the chances of reaching those incredible final moments simultaneously.
Privacy is everything
Going to live some beautiful and intimate moments with your loved. You do not want that when you are at the pinnacle of ecstasy to wake up your mother beat you at the door, the phone call and that your boyfriend sneak a peek at the game on TV. Thus, this experience starts when you carefully remove this disturbance to you can freely enjoy a unique night.
Invent new positions
If you prefer the missionary position, was that only 9% of couples fail to reach orgasm simultaneously in this position, according to a study. What is the solution in this case? Try an auxiliary version of the position. It consists of three steps and allows the production of an orgasm simultaneously:
1. begins with the classic missionary position;
2. then your partner raises his little torso;
3. usual forward-back movement is transformed into one of the swing.
If you prefer domineering and position you above, there a trick here specially created to enhance your pleasure. All you have to do is pull your legs back, allowing your knees to be closer to the hips than chest. Then, try arches until it falls back line perpendicular to the bed. Arch format offers a powerful pressure pelvic area as climax.
But you should not panic. By understanding, communication and practice, you and your lover can reach the heights of ecstasy at the same time with ease.
Be attentive to the needs of your partner and takes account of the techniques listed below and you will get a simultaneous orgasm that will bring added magic in your bedroom.
Breathing is everything
Often the reason a woman get harder to climax during sexual intercourse is a shallow breathing. To achieve climax, pelvic area needs more oxygen to speed up heart rate and speed up your senses.
Thus, during a sexual act is trying to hurry the pace of breathing sync up with your boyfriend. Breathe through your mouth and out jerky, thereby giving more oxygen to your body.
Read your partner's gestures
Often it happens that one of the partners to make a gesture that gives the impression that would be about to end, but this move to be a wrong. To reach orgasm simultaneously requires that both partners be at the same level of arousal.
Thus, a code established before with your boyfriend meant to help you exicatie tracked the degree of the other. You can use gestures or words, you can even start a game where you give notes 1 to 10 of your sensation (1 meaning "up there much longer" and 10 "are about to finish").
Kegel exercises
This type of exercise, recognized worldwide, helps improve sexual life partners giving them the opportunity to intensify and delay the grand finale. Why not make use of this technique and you even during a sexual act?
How you do it? Simply incordeaza your muscles when your lover pubococcigieni withdraw and relax and when they join. In this way you will has complete control climax and you decide when it is time to end.
Rush breaks the job
Eventually you are the race and not participate in any contest in which one of you having to go out first to finish. Take it easy and do everything with patience and calm. A fast pace simply tired senses. Instead, exploring each other and leaving you for your bodies to accommodate the feelings felt, increased the chances of reaching those incredible final moments simultaneously.
Privacy is everything
Going to live some beautiful and intimate moments with your loved. You do not want that when you are at the pinnacle of ecstasy to wake up your mother beat you at the door, the phone call and that your boyfriend sneak a peek at the game on TV. Thus, this experience starts when you carefully remove this disturbance to you can freely enjoy a unique night.
Invent new positions
If you prefer the missionary position, was that only 9% of couples fail to reach orgasm simultaneously in this position, according to a study. What is the solution in this case? Try an auxiliary version of the position. It consists of three steps and allows the production of an orgasm simultaneously:
1. begins with the classic missionary position;
2. then your partner raises his little torso;
3. usual forward-back movement is transformed into one of the swing.
If you prefer domineering and position you above, there a trick here specially created to enhance your pleasure. All you have to do is pull your legs back, allowing your knees to be closer to the hips than chest. Then, try arches until it falls back line perpendicular to the bed. Arch format offers a powerful pressure pelvic area as climax.
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Thursday, February 4, 2010
Did you know ...
You think you know everything about sex? Read this!
1. Ithyphallophobia calls it someone fear of seeing, to have and to think of the penis.
2. In a survey conducted by ... the extent, the most popular flavor of edible underwear is cherry intimate and not chocolate, as previously believed.
3. In Aztec culture, avocados were considered a fruit with sexual connotations so strong that virgin girls were not allowed to be near him.
4. Marilyn Monroe, sex-symbol-twentieth century, would have confessed to a friend about the fact that although he had many sexual partners, has never experienced orgasm.
5. The shelf life of a latex condom is about 2 years.
6. Fetish to feel small insects moving in their genital area is called formicophilia.
7. The highest level of homosexuality among mammals, males were found in bats.
8. According to some surveys, women with higher education more easily accept oral sex (and make them do), than those who have left school.
9. A man's beard grows fastest when anticipates sexual acts.
10. Long ago it was believed that masturbation can lead to blindness, mental disorders, various other serious illness or even sudden death. Current research but certainly refute such speculation.
11. Over the life of a man ejaculate approximately 18 gallons of semen, containing a trillion sperm.
12. The first couple that was shown sitting in bed on prime time television program, were ... Fred and Wilma Flintstone.
13. On the biochemical, sex is equivalent to the consumption of significant quantities of chocolate.
14. People and dolphins are the only species that have sex for pleasure.
15. Each normal web pages a corresponding other 5 pages with pornographic content.
16. The word fuck is actually an acronym. Dates from the period when Britain was subpopulata because of war and outbreak of severe epidemics. King at that time issued an order, which order the population to grow ... "Fornicate Under Comand of the King".
17. In general, men think about sex every 7 seconds, and women ... Mmm, where was I?
18. "Venus notice" is the scientific term for so-called sexual position "missionary".
19. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. It is 10 times more effective than Valium's.
20. Sex is a natural antihistamine. Among other things, reduce asthma and high fever.
1. Ithyphallophobia calls it someone fear of seeing, to have and to think of the penis.
2. In a survey conducted by ... the extent, the most popular flavor of edible underwear is cherry intimate and not chocolate, as previously believed.
3. In Aztec culture, avocados were considered a fruit with sexual connotations so strong that virgin girls were not allowed to be near him.
4. Marilyn Monroe, sex-symbol-twentieth century, would have confessed to a friend about the fact that although he had many sexual partners, has never experienced orgasm.
5. The shelf life of a latex condom is about 2 years.
6. Fetish to feel small insects moving in their genital area is called formicophilia.
7. The highest level of homosexuality among mammals, males were found in bats.
8. According to some surveys, women with higher education more easily accept oral sex (and make them do), than those who have left school.
9. A man's beard grows fastest when anticipates sexual acts.
10. Long ago it was believed that masturbation can lead to blindness, mental disorders, various other serious illness or even sudden death. Current research but certainly refute such speculation.
11. Over the life of a man ejaculate approximately 18 gallons of semen, containing a trillion sperm.
12. The first couple that was shown sitting in bed on prime time television program, were ... Fred and Wilma Flintstone.
13. On the biochemical, sex is equivalent to the consumption of significant quantities of chocolate.
14. People and dolphins are the only species that have sex for pleasure.
15. Each normal web pages a corresponding other 5 pages with pornographic content.
16. The word fuck is actually an acronym. Dates from the period when Britain was subpopulata because of war and outbreak of severe epidemics. King at that time issued an order, which order the population to grow ... "Fornicate Under Comand of the King".
17. In general, men think about sex every 7 seconds, and women ... Mmm, where was I?
18. "Venus notice" is the scientific term for so-called sexual position "missionary".
19. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. It is 10 times more effective than Valium's.
20. Sex is a natural antihistamine. Among other things, reduce asthma and high fever.
Monday, February 1, 2010
Intelligent women make quality sex
Yes, you read correctly! Women with a higher IQ enjoys sex games more hard than the fair sex representatives have lower intelligence. The reason? According to researchers in London, from King College, a woman with a high IQ knows what to do to achieve orgasm and to satisfy their partner.
According to a study involving 2,000 women aged between 18 and 83 years is not enough for a woman to be beautiful to get what she wants in bed. Participants in the study were divided into two categories: women with a low coefficient of intelligence and with a coefficient above average intelligence. They were asked to rate on a scale with seven steps, how often reach orgasm.
At the end of the study, only 40 percent of women with a low IQ orgasm and 30 percent of this category touching climax difficult or never.
On the other side, 85 percent of participants with a high coefficient of intelligence replied that they orgasm every time, and 50 percent of these women that there are sex parties where at least two orgasms in one night.
The study, the researchers concluded that intelligence is key to success for a rewarding sexual life.
According to a study involving 2,000 women aged between 18 and 83 years is not enough for a woman to be beautiful to get what she wants in bed. Participants in the study were divided into two categories: women with a low coefficient of intelligence and with a coefficient above average intelligence. They were asked to rate on a scale with seven steps, how often reach orgasm.
At the end of the study, only 40 percent of women with a low IQ orgasm and 30 percent of this category touching climax difficult or never.
On the other side, 85 percent of participants with a high coefficient of intelligence replied that they orgasm every time, and 50 percent of these women that there are sex parties where at least two orgasms in one night.
The study, the researchers concluded that intelligence is key to success for a rewarding sexual life.
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Thursday, January 28, 2010
Women, men and oral sex. Like it or not?
How many men are willing to provide oral sex any time their partners? How many women meet their partners in this way, without feeling constrained? And especially, what experts say about our attitude for oral sex? Let's find out together!
Women
1. When offering
There are women who like to satisfy their partners so. But many are and do not accept oral sex, or that they do, but reluctantly. Or him. Well, when you receive such treatment, men want to see passion against women, pleasure, implication.
Certainly not a stone sheepfold which performs some mechanical movements. And women know this too well. So why accept to do something contrary to their wishes?
Sexologii say this is the result of uncertainty I feel towards the relationship that are involved, their feelings towards themselves and towards the partner. In addition, they think that if they will not do oral sex, your partner will find a mistress who offer him exactly what they want.
2. When receiving
Do not like to give, but not when it comes to receive oral sex, women are given in the wind. Even if I LOVE sensations caused, there is a very small percentage of women who will suggest or request directly to partner oral stimulation.
Why? We return again to the uncertainty, but this time the feeling has to do with their bodies, specifically the genital organs. Often conceal their nudity of their own love, what you talking about it sends exactly on the spot!
Men
1. When offering
How many men, so many ways. For some, the number one priority is oral sex, for others it is not that important. Some are absolutely crazy to offer him such a stimulating partner, instead atii not do before.
Statistics also show that there are men who refused to give oral sex partner, but at the same time have no problem doing any other women.
And last but not least, some men have a special sensitivity, invoking reasons such as smell, taste or simply the vulva, which prevents them from approaching the area.
2. When receiving
Well, it is the men they love most. Would not have much to say, extremely rare because a man refused a woman willing to provide oral stimulation.
Moreover, they are those who request it and when they want, and do they do quite often, considering oral sex cause of immediate assessment of a relationship.
Women
1. When offering
There are women who like to satisfy their partners so. But many are and do not accept oral sex, or that they do, but reluctantly. Or him. Well, when you receive such treatment, men want to see passion against women, pleasure, implication.
Certainly not a stone sheepfold which performs some mechanical movements. And women know this too well. So why accept to do something contrary to their wishes?
Sexologii say this is the result of uncertainty I feel towards the relationship that are involved, their feelings towards themselves and towards the partner. In addition, they think that if they will not do oral sex, your partner will find a mistress who offer him exactly what they want.
2. When receiving
Do not like to give, but not when it comes to receive oral sex, women are given in the wind. Even if I LOVE sensations caused, there is a very small percentage of women who will suggest or request directly to partner oral stimulation.
Why? We return again to the uncertainty, but this time the feeling has to do with their bodies, specifically the genital organs. Often conceal their nudity of their own love, what you talking about it sends exactly on the spot!
Men
1. When offering
How many men, so many ways. For some, the number one priority is oral sex, for others it is not that important. Some are absolutely crazy to offer him such a stimulating partner, instead atii not do before.
Statistics also show that there are men who refused to give oral sex partner, but at the same time have no problem doing any other women.
And last but not least, some men have a special sensitivity, invoking reasons such as smell, taste or simply the vulva, which prevents them from approaching the area.
2. When receiving
Well, it is the men they love most. Would not have much to say, extremely rare because a man refused a woman willing to provide oral stimulation.
Moreover, they are those who request it and when they want, and do they do quite often, considering oral sex cause of immediate assessment of a relationship.
Friday, January 22, 2010
Orgasm in women and men
Many say orgasm is great! Orgasm: peak of pleasure! Orgasm, a chimera! Orgasm change you! Orgasm, the key to happiness in couple! OK. Let's see though ... .... What is orgasm? A subjective perception of maximum intensity of sexual stimulation, expressed through a feeling of pleasure paraxistica.
A subjective perception ... ... .. which means that most times, these feelings are perceived orgasm associated particularly specific to each of us. All what is common is the combination of pleasure, ecstasy up .... each of us with their ways of reporting speech and especially representation of those felt in sexual intimacy with your beloved. For some it is the expression of love for each other. For others the confirmation of a successful sexual intercourse. For many, a goal in itself ... .... A standard .... One prize ... .. a ... .. a download pride ... etc.. Orgasm is experienced by a sensual full body with a lust overwhelming expression of unparalleled pleasures where time seems to have stopped his flight.
He has no connection with reproduction of the genital organs, perpetuating the species can be possible in the case of coplulari anorgasmice. Orgasm is the partners who love each other to experience a new type of special communication and fusion, fusion bodily and spiritual. The ecstasy that conveys, the two lose their self-identity, merging is, they become more than ever, a whole one all, one being.
They give off an energy around them and also are filled with that energy ... .. The state is an experienced outside somaticului, like a "trance lucid" for many. Others give way this state neconstientizand what happens, just feel and enjoy every moment. Laughing or crying sometimes including some women orgasm are just moments before the ecstasy experienced personal reactions. Spasms, moans ... crisparea psycho-somatic manifestations resembles orgasmic agony.
Orgasmic experience differ from one person to another, at the same time, the same person, the intensity of orgasm can be different depending on the circumstances, context, and especially according to the stages of life. Orgasm occurs both men and women and is an expression of physical pleasures of living a psychosomatic intense.Ia as a site of "blood" occurs after sexual excitation. Postorgasmic partners are covered by a total relaxation in somatic and psychological level (the two are "abandoned" to each other). Duration orgasm can vary between three and ten seconds in real time, while mentally, it can take forever or just for an instant.
Female orgasm can be triggered spontaneously when the male orgasm, but the two phenomena often do not coincide. While the male, orgasm already started can not be interrupted by any external intervention, either by their own will, she can "rate" orgasm. An unexpected noise, a state of tension, anxiety, change the pace of the partner or his position, suddenly a man ejaculation .... Etc ... are a few factors that can intervene. Psychic and somatic, the state "half satisfied and half frustrated" is felt as a state of muscle tension, nervousness, depressed mood, headaches. The act is seen as a missed note, a failure, an unpleasant experience ... orgasm.
Women have an orgasm either by clitoral stimulation or penetration and movements , in the first situation we obtain an intense orgasm, acute, "power" in the second situation is an orgasm "internal" deeper, hot , subtle, diffuse, mild. Most women can achieve orgasm both clitoral and vaginal.Exista dams, stimulation, voluptuous sensations are obtained only at the clitoris, orgasm itself realized only through this vaginala.In incentive is the difference between orgasm and juisare itself.
Often men think that is sufficient to penetrate the power and love, and if it does not react with sensuality, they think it's the relentless frigid. Please note: if the woman is totally frigid, certainly, and her lover is responsible. In such cases it is for them to find words warm and tender gestures that can open, consolations that emotion ... Few women reach orgasm just because of movements!
There are different ways subjective feeling of orgasm in women. Are women, especially for those inexperienced, living in a state of high arousal, with many pleasant sensations but without reaching an intense orgasm. Then there are women that sex generates a rapid growth state of excitability, feeling bound with a unique and intense orgasms. And are women who have multiple orgasms .... Of up to 6-7 successive orgasms.
In men, there can, in addition to delayed ejaculation, early or anejaculare with or without orgasm (situations I talked in another article), a state of increased excitability which ends with an intense orgasm and ejaculation abundance. Situation then most times no longer engage in sexual intercourse with another partner that night. There are men with repeated sexual intercourse during the same meeting. If their first orgasm is more intense, others are of lower intensity. Also the quantity of semen decreases with each report "completed" in parte. Ar men who can differentiate ejaculation orgasm, they can be sometimes more orgasms without ejaculating.
Achieving orgasm woman is strongly influenced by its ability to "let gone" for pleasure, for the abandonment of pleasure ... .. to answer the man in motion, giving to understand that verbal or nonverbal sexual act itself placere.Tendinta makes some women to "force permanently" get orgasm, risk often inhibit them psycho-sexual. The same result appears and if this pressure comes from the partner who "wants any" price as a partner to reach orgasm.
Orgasm is achieved more easily and quickly by women who know their own body better and not worry or feel embarrassed them and to live pleasure. Let's not forget that there are women for whom it is more important to "give back" orgasm than you have.
Ideal is full harmonization and "complicity" of the two sex partners. Important: the nature of the meeting and two sentiments, "quality" foreplay and ability "to giving" to each of the two partners: women and man. We ar so special and yet ... .. so alike that sometimes forget and mistake! look to us and makes mistakes and face the one that you or a loved.
The purpose of this article was simply an introduction to diverse problems of orgasm in the human being, the men and women, an invitation for retrieval of "scenarios" in our sexual behavior and why not?! An invitation to self-analysis and personal development "sexual" personal impetus for change and finding answers and solutions together.
A subjective perception ... ... .. which means that most times, these feelings are perceived orgasm associated particularly specific to each of us. All what is common is the combination of pleasure, ecstasy up .... each of us with their ways of reporting speech and especially representation of those felt in sexual intimacy with your beloved. For some it is the expression of love for each other. For others the confirmation of a successful sexual intercourse. For many, a goal in itself ... .... A standard .... One prize ... .. a ... .. a download pride ... etc.. Orgasm is experienced by a sensual full body with a lust overwhelming expression of unparalleled pleasures where time seems to have stopped his flight.
He has no connection with reproduction of the genital organs, perpetuating the species can be possible in the case of coplulari anorgasmice. Orgasm is the partners who love each other to experience a new type of special communication and fusion, fusion bodily and spiritual. The ecstasy that conveys, the two lose their self-identity, merging is, they become more than ever, a whole one all, one being.
They give off an energy around them and also are filled with that energy ... .. The state is an experienced outside somaticului, like a "trance lucid" for many. Others give way this state neconstientizand what happens, just feel and enjoy every moment. Laughing or crying sometimes including some women orgasm are just moments before the ecstasy experienced personal reactions. Spasms, moans ... crisparea psycho-somatic manifestations resembles orgasmic agony.
Orgasmic experience differ from one person to another, at the same time, the same person, the intensity of orgasm can be different depending on the circumstances, context, and especially according to the stages of life. Orgasm occurs both men and women and is an expression of physical pleasures of living a psychosomatic intense.Ia as a site of "blood" occurs after sexual excitation. Postorgasmic partners are covered by a total relaxation in somatic and psychological level (the two are "abandoned" to each other). Duration orgasm can vary between three and ten seconds in real time, while mentally, it can take forever or just for an instant.
Female orgasm can be triggered spontaneously when the male orgasm, but the two phenomena often do not coincide. While the male, orgasm already started can not be interrupted by any external intervention, either by their own will, she can "rate" orgasm. An unexpected noise, a state of tension, anxiety, change the pace of the partner or his position, suddenly a man ejaculation .... Etc ... are a few factors that can intervene. Psychic and somatic, the state "half satisfied and half frustrated" is felt as a state of muscle tension, nervousness, depressed mood, headaches. The act is seen as a missed note, a failure, an unpleasant experience ... orgasm.
Women have an orgasm either by clitoral stimulation or penetration and movements , in the first situation we obtain an intense orgasm, acute, "power" in the second situation is an orgasm "internal" deeper, hot , subtle, diffuse, mild. Most women can achieve orgasm both clitoral and vaginal.Exista dams, stimulation, voluptuous sensations are obtained only at the clitoris, orgasm itself realized only through this vaginala.In incentive is the difference between orgasm and juisare itself.
Often men think that is sufficient to penetrate the power and love, and if it does not react with sensuality, they think it's the relentless frigid. Please note: if the woman is totally frigid, certainly, and her lover is responsible. In such cases it is for them to find words warm and tender gestures that can open, consolations that emotion ... Few women reach orgasm just because of movements!
There are different ways subjective feeling of orgasm in women. Are women, especially for those inexperienced, living in a state of high arousal, with many pleasant sensations but without reaching an intense orgasm. Then there are women that sex generates a rapid growth state of excitability, feeling bound with a unique and intense orgasms. And are women who have multiple orgasms .... Of up to 6-7 successive orgasms.
In men, there can, in addition to delayed ejaculation, early or anejaculare with or without orgasm (situations I talked in another article), a state of increased excitability which ends with an intense orgasm and ejaculation abundance. Situation then most times no longer engage in sexual intercourse with another partner that night. There are men with repeated sexual intercourse during the same meeting. If their first orgasm is more intense, others are of lower intensity. Also the quantity of semen decreases with each report "completed" in parte. Ar men who can differentiate ejaculation orgasm, they can be sometimes more orgasms without ejaculating.
Achieving orgasm woman is strongly influenced by its ability to "let gone" for pleasure, for the abandonment of pleasure ... .. to answer the man in motion, giving to understand that verbal or nonverbal sexual act itself placere.Tendinta makes some women to "force permanently" get orgasm, risk often inhibit them psycho-sexual. The same result appears and if this pressure comes from the partner who "wants any" price as a partner to reach orgasm.
Orgasm is achieved more easily and quickly by women who know their own body better and not worry or feel embarrassed them and to live pleasure. Let's not forget that there are women for whom it is more important to "give back" orgasm than you have.
Ideal is full harmonization and "complicity" of the two sex partners. Important: the nature of the meeting and two sentiments, "quality" foreplay and ability "to giving" to each of the two partners: women and man. We ar so special and yet ... .. so alike that sometimes forget and mistake! look to us and makes mistakes and face the one that you or a loved.
The purpose of this article was simply an introduction to diverse problems of orgasm in the human being, the men and women, an invitation for retrieval of "scenarios" in our sexual behavior and why not?! An invitation to self-analysis and personal development "sexual" personal impetus for change and finding answers and solutions together.
Thursday, January 14, 2010
G-spot is actually in the brain
Mind and everything happens in its most hidden Ungherese appears to be the key to achieving orgasm much coveted by women.
After studying the sexual fulfillment of a group of women who survived cervical cancer, researchers from the University of Southern California and Yale have found that orgasm occurs more psychological level.
Women who participated in the study had ovaries removed, which means the flow of testosterone was reduced or blocked completely. About the male hormone, it was known to play a critical role in sexual life both women and men.
Scientists have now found there and lack of sexual satisfaction. The study uncovered the importance of non-hormonal components of sexual arousal and satisfaction, which comes to help women who have never experienced an orgasm.
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Wednesday, January 13, 2010
U Spot, the new hot center of sex
G Spot, A Spot, and now U Spot. This is the recent discovery of sexology, which also meant a "hotbed of pleasure" on the woman's body.
Female genitals are extremely sensitive to touch, but to get maximum pleasure must be stimulated, especially in certain areas. So, over time, sex experts have targeted and called with one letter of the alphabet each boiling points. And then they made the point and one user manual for any of the representatives of hard sex, not to miss the exam for material "Orgasm".
Keeping our optimism and faith that soon we will be able to say the whole alphabet, guiding us after the woman's intimate, today we discussed the U Spot. For handling of A Spot to G sSpot and not transformed the men in real gods of sex, specialists have found a little part of the woman's body which they say that, once stimulated, it will provide waves of pleasure.
Where is the U?
The area around the urinary hole, which many inexperienced men confuse it with the vaginal opening is the area in question. Strong feelings of pleasure are not present in all women, but one can say with certainty that the hole is not only for urinating on here since there is female ejaculation.
Glands surrounding the female urethra are similar to the male who is known as determining the sensitivity in a certain area. Men can stimulate U Spot with fingers or during oral sex.
G Spot
Prior to the discovery of U Spot, the most famous location on body map of a woman was the G Spot. It is 3-5 inches deep, in front of the vagina and on how small it is, on so large they are polemics generated: while some doctors say is a real volcano of pleasure for women, others believe that he does not exist.
A Spot
Located on the anterior wall of the vagina, about halfway between the G and cervix, A Spot is absolutely accidental discovery of a sex therapist in Malaysia. Also called the AFE (Anterior Fornix Erogenous), about it says that, when stimulated properly, ensure lubrication of the vagina and can generate an intense orgasm and ... instantly!
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Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Sex and health
Erotic Exercises
With all that sex means less power consumption compared to aerobic, for example, though he may be training in maintaining figure. But depends on the intensity with which it is lived sex, since orgasm cause a contraction of the muscles of the arms, legs and abdomen.
Also, breathing and heart rate redouble when sexual arousal, just as happens in case of training carried out on land or in gyms. Another benefit that you will enjoy the most is a "slip" slow in a deep sleep following sexual intercourse.
Since sex requires resistance has been shown that active people are more likely to get a sexual satisfaction than sedentary people, just moving the seat of the chair home office. Conclusion: Take Action to have a happy sex life! Exercise regularly executed will improve your sex life because it helps implicitly and strengthening muscles, the proper functioning of the cardiovascular system and the maintenance of mental health.
A healthier heart
A study on a sample of 99 middle-aged men showed that men with sexually active who have sex at least twice a week presents a lower risk of making a heart attack in the next 10 years compared with men who have sex less often. This study was published in the Journal of Epidemiolagy and Community Health "in Britain.
Benefits for her
Some studies attest that sexual activity may prevent endometriosis, a gynecological problem encountered in the pretty women and characterized by the presence of fragments of uterine lining (endometrium) outside their normal location. This can cause pelvic pain, reaching in some extreme cases even to infertility. The study published in a newspaper investigation in gynecology and obstetrics has shown that sexually active women in the menstrual cycle presents opportunities to down 1.5% to face with endometriosis compared with women who refuse sexual intercourse during the menstrual cycle. Why? Uterine contractions during intercourse, especially orgasm, helps eliminate the womb of the fragments of the uterine lining.
Benefits for him
After a period in which it was believed that sexual intercourse increases the risk of prostate cancer, new research in the area have destroyed this myth, demonstrating that frequent ejaculation protects prostate cancer. So, men who ejaculate more than five times per week show a decreased risk by up to 30% to confront this issue, compared with those who ejaculate from 4-7 times a month. During ejaculation, cancer-producing substances are eliminated by the seminal fluid thereby protecting the prostate.
Eliminate Stress
A default and happy sex life improves mood. Orgasm gained through sexual intercourse with a partner or masturbation will eliminate stress because it is issued during a hormone which creates an emotional balance and a feeling of total relaxation. The researchers compared the action to "recharge" the body through orgasm with that of "reboot" of a computer. But attention! An excessive focus on peak puctului may induce a state of stress. Let your frustrations aside and look at the act as a mutual erotic pleasure, regardless of how you conducted.
With all that sex means less power consumption compared to aerobic, for example, though he may be training in maintaining figure. But depends on the intensity with which it is lived sex, since orgasm cause a contraction of the muscles of the arms, legs and abdomen.
Also, breathing and heart rate redouble when sexual arousal, just as happens in case of training carried out on land or in gyms. Another benefit that you will enjoy the most is a "slip" slow in a deep sleep following sexual intercourse.
Since sex requires resistance has been shown that active people are more likely to get a sexual satisfaction than sedentary people, just moving the seat of the chair home office. Conclusion: Take Action to have a happy sex life! Exercise regularly executed will improve your sex life because it helps implicitly and strengthening muscles, the proper functioning of the cardiovascular system and the maintenance of mental health.
A healthier heart
A study on a sample of 99 middle-aged men showed that men with sexually active who have sex at least twice a week presents a lower risk of making a heart attack in the next 10 years compared with men who have sex less often. This study was published in the Journal of Epidemiolagy and Community Health "in Britain.
Benefits for her
Some studies attest that sexual activity may prevent endometriosis, a gynecological problem encountered in the pretty women and characterized by the presence of fragments of uterine lining (endometrium) outside their normal location. This can cause pelvic pain, reaching in some extreme cases even to infertility. The study published in a newspaper investigation in gynecology and obstetrics has shown that sexually active women in the menstrual cycle presents opportunities to down 1.5% to face with endometriosis compared with women who refuse sexual intercourse during the menstrual cycle. Why? Uterine contractions during intercourse, especially orgasm, helps eliminate the womb of the fragments of the uterine lining.
Benefits for him
After a period in which it was believed that sexual intercourse increases the risk of prostate cancer, new research in the area have destroyed this myth, demonstrating that frequent ejaculation protects prostate cancer. So, men who ejaculate more than five times per week show a decreased risk by up to 30% to confront this issue, compared with those who ejaculate from 4-7 times a month. During ejaculation, cancer-producing substances are eliminated by the seminal fluid thereby protecting the prostate.
Eliminate Stress
A default and happy sex life improves mood. Orgasm gained through sexual intercourse with a partner or masturbation will eliminate stress because it is issued during a hormone which creates an emotional balance and a feeling of total relaxation. The researchers compared the action to "recharge" the body through orgasm with that of "reboot" of a computer. But attention! An excessive focus on peak puctului may induce a state of stress. Let your frustrations aside and look at the act as a mutual erotic pleasure, regardless of how you conducted.
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Sex in the kitchen
If you are wondering where and how they came aphrodisiacs, we now solve: the merit belongs to a legend in the center which was itself goddess of beauty, Aphrodite. Keen to attract more men into her bed, says he began preparing erotic lotions and ingredients from various plants.
On hearing the results, all nations have followed suit, only had the same goal and then as now: an enviable sex life. One category of foods considered aphrodisiacs is one whose shape resembles strikingly the genitals, it follows spicy foods (not only take your mouth a fire, but sex will be fighting) and various herbs (the most famous is ginseng).
Caviar
Contains vitamins in full. Sturgeon eggs are very rich in phosphorus and nourish nerve cells. Tell him your lover to drink and a glass of vodka after she ate caviar and prepare for a wild night of sex white.
Oysters
Are aphrodisiacs with acts okay, since Roman times. Occur in some fables Century II, which are presented as food, once eaten, your sex drive up to the sky.
Asparagus
Phallic form turned into an aphrodisiac in great demand. Those who have tried say give the best results eaten boiled or stewed. Walk about as if eating asparagus for three months, I have some sexual performance would be envious and the Guru Bivolaru.
Banana and pineapple
Banana popularity among aphrodisiacs is due in great form that takes you immediately think about a penis. Fruit abounds in potassium and vitamin B, elements that produce sex hormones. Since the world, pineapple used in treating impotence. Equally successful has the duty and served in combination with sex before a game that will last long and hard.
Garlic
Fierce garlic send too quick in bed. We know that is unrivaled in arousing the passions of sexual desires. So prepare a sauce and serve it as a seasoning in other dishes. Bonus: you Spice intimate. The same effect it has and onion.
Mustard
Stimulates the sexual glands something memorable, so, after you eat, an appetite for sex to increase your stunning. Combined with the pepper is even more effective.
Carrot
Those who have tried to say out loud (very loud): do wonders for male potency. Carrot was used in ancient times by girls who believed they help you seduce the person desired.
Coffee
After a copious dinner, not enter the bedroom before you drink one cup of coffee. It is a known stimulant. Served strong and without sugar, will prepare the mind and body for a hot night.
Wine
Drink of Bacchus helps you relax and stimulate your senses. Drink two glasses of wine and, from there to honor a game of sex, there is not even the proverbial step.
Chocolate
Put straw on fire during the Aztec passion since. Contains antioxidants that do wonders for your libido. The secret of a hot night: eating dark chocolate and drink a glass of Cabernet. I expect an unforgettable experience.
Pilaf Valentine:
- 1 cup white rice underboiled - 1 clove garlic chopped - 1 / 2 teaspoon salt
- 2 cups water - 1 / 4 cup raisins
- Finely chopped saffron - saffron 1 whole. Preparation: Topesti butter in a pan on medium heat, add onion and a rumeneste to become transparent. Add rice, salt and garlic, mix well until rice is covered with butter. Then add water, chopped raisins and saffron. Cover with a lid and leave it over low heat 20 minutes. Transfer contents into the dish of the following to serve, add saffron and whole rice orneaza. It is served hoooot ...
Monday, December 7, 2009
A summer full of sex - orgasm guide
Until several years ago, my sex life was like an episode of Lost, always given resume. I felt that my partners do not really know or where they are or what they do. All sorts of strange noises populated bedroom atmosphere, without any of the participants in the experiment aims to understand something of the game.
Technique: catching the ropes
To: clitoral stimulation
Tools: Tongue
It was named after the strategy used by Muhammad Ali to make it to the ground on Foreman. Ali resisted heroically 7 rounds before returning and the weary Foreman dropped on the floor. When it comes to oral sex, learn from Ali.
Conserve your energy
Leave her to make the effort more, press it in yourtongue. begins with slow, rhythmic movements. Continue with a move to stimulate prolonged until the top of the inner labia clitoris. No matter how hard it would groan and shake girl, i do not have to please another. Keep the movements slow, delicate and continuous. Bring on the verge of hysteria one, then ... Surprise her with a series of vertical or diagonal touch fast, direct clit. After that ... Return to the movements slow and easy. Repeat until they lost consciousness.
Why it works
This technique gradually relax a gradually increases its excitation. The clitoris is extremely sensitive to any type of prejudice. But you will managed to put blood in motion giving him precisely that stimulation it needs, without you hit the little body erogenous sensitivity. Reprizele the more vigorous is the element of surprise attacks, which it will react promptly and it will bring much closer to orgasm.
Technology: Plug in the palm
To: clitoral stimulation, with optional stimulation of point G
Tools: Hands
Women do not forget a pair of beautiful hands. You and yours want to enroll in the "unforgettable"? Sit down on one side. You all night. Put your hand over an entry in the vagina and hit the back of the hand on the pubic bone. Let your fingers to slip inside how slowly as possible. Let your hand to push on. Use your forefinger and middle finger to make gestures of "Come here" inside the vagina.
Ball-and clitoris with the tip of other fingers. Labia and they deserve some attention ... For variety, enter deeper two fingers and press them toward the outside front wall of the vagina. Yes, you got it, and so simultaneously stimulate the G, and clitoris.
Why it works
Position and movements stimulates entry into the vagina, an area full of nerve endings often ignored. while she pushes her clitoris in your hand, you are free to be creative with your fingers.
Yes, yes, yes! So your partner will scream after you apply all that contains this article.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
The 6 types of female orgasm
1. Dream Orgasm
Even though men can provide physical evidence of such experiences, it does not mean that women who are denied the privilege of having an orgasm while dreaming (with eyes closed). In addition, nocturnal orgasms are living with an intensity far greater than the fair sex reprezentatele. They can wake up sweaty, exhausted and believing strongly that it was more than a dream.
What is interesting about orgasms during sleep is that they occur without the need for some kind of physical stimulation. Sometimes we dream that we have an orgasm, one at a time. They may be accompanied by vaginal contractions strong or not.
The erotic dreams often occur when a woman begins her sexual life, but do not lack most experienced women. A simple meeting can ignite romantic sparks, and may thus lead to nocturnal fantasies.
Medieval theologians have postulated the existence of demons called "hatching" having sex with women while giving them orgasms sleep at night. Witches in that period even pretends to make love with the devil during sleep (if that can be called love).
2. MICRO-orgasmic
They are tiny and extremely subtle orgasms occur without physical stimulation and taking various forms. Beverly Whipple and Gina Ogden Sexologii have investigated whether women can have orgasms just from imagination. The results obtained have been more than encouraging: yes, women can have orgasms only through sexual fantasies, orgasms that can be with or without specific contractions.
There are cases of women who orgasm in situations that could hardly be classified as erotic. Some have an orgasm when you are very frightened or when made enjoyable activities, but without sexual connotation.
And you are happy possessing micro-orgasms. They exist in you. All you have to do is to bring them to the surface.
3. ORGASMS ENTER - Vagina
This category includes so-called vaginal orgasms, orgasms through stimulation of point G, orgasms cervical and any other type of orgasms occurring following intravaginal stimulation (regardless of "subject" that is stimulating). There are subtle differentiation between intra-vaginal orgasms and often can achieve ecstasy by stimulating more sensitive at the same time
4. ENERGY ORGASMS
Such orgasms are enveloped in mystery and not because it is difficult or impossible to obtain, but because they were not given enough attention in our culture. Energy orgasms are achieved by controlling your breathing and energy that flows through our body. Unlike traditional types of orgasm which aim to release sexual tension, energy orgasms have the purpose (as their name says) power generation.
Some are incredibly strong and others are more subtle. In general, the more time you grant the accumulation of energy, the more you will have more powerful orgasms. You'll feel like your whole body is flooded with a wave of electricity, and sensations may be obtained or not sexual. One thing is certain, this type of orgasm is totally different from everything you've felt before.
Besides electrifying sensations obtained, you will receive a bonus: you will release the suppressed emotions, old mental pain and any other blocks harmful.
5.ORGASME CLITORIDIENE
The clitoris is the only organ designed solely for pleasure, and orgasms are only achieved by stimulating its not called into doubt.
Clitoral orgasm is of several types and it lasts from several seconds to several minutes! Most times it can be achieved when the clitoris is massaged slightly, and when it is well lubricated.
6.ORGASME COMBINED
During a sexual act can never say exactly the type of stimulation that brought you into ecstasy whereas often experience orgasms combined. The combination encountered most often is between clitoridiene and the vaginal orgasms. It would, however, a great loss if it were the only combination possible.
Even though men can provide physical evidence of such experiences, it does not mean that women who are denied the privilege of having an orgasm while dreaming (with eyes closed). In addition, nocturnal orgasms are living with an intensity far greater than the fair sex reprezentatele. They can wake up sweaty, exhausted and believing strongly that it was more than a dream.
What is interesting about orgasms during sleep is that they occur without the need for some kind of physical stimulation. Sometimes we dream that we have an orgasm, one at a time. They may be accompanied by vaginal contractions strong or not.
The erotic dreams often occur when a woman begins her sexual life, but do not lack most experienced women. A simple meeting can ignite romantic sparks, and may thus lead to nocturnal fantasies.
Medieval theologians have postulated the existence of demons called "hatching" having sex with women while giving them orgasms sleep at night. Witches in that period even pretends to make love with the devil during sleep (if that can be called love).
2. MICRO-orgasmic
They are tiny and extremely subtle orgasms occur without physical stimulation and taking various forms. Beverly Whipple and Gina Ogden Sexologii have investigated whether women can have orgasms just from imagination. The results obtained have been more than encouraging: yes, women can have orgasms only through sexual fantasies, orgasms that can be with or without specific contractions.
There are cases of women who orgasm in situations that could hardly be classified as erotic. Some have an orgasm when you are very frightened or when made enjoyable activities, but without sexual connotation.
And you are happy possessing micro-orgasms. They exist in you. All you have to do is to bring them to the surface.
3. ORGASMS ENTER - Vagina
This category includes so-called vaginal orgasms, orgasms through stimulation of point G, orgasms cervical and any other type of orgasms occurring following intravaginal stimulation (regardless of "subject" that is stimulating). There are subtle differentiation between intra-vaginal orgasms and often can achieve ecstasy by stimulating more sensitive at the same time
4. ENERGY ORGASMS
Such orgasms are enveloped in mystery and not because it is difficult or impossible to obtain, but because they were not given enough attention in our culture. Energy orgasms are achieved by controlling your breathing and energy that flows through our body. Unlike traditional types of orgasm which aim to release sexual tension, energy orgasms have the purpose (as their name says) power generation.
Some are incredibly strong and others are more subtle. In general, the more time you grant the accumulation of energy, the more you will have more powerful orgasms. You'll feel like your whole body is flooded with a wave of electricity, and sensations may be obtained or not sexual. One thing is certain, this type of orgasm is totally different from everything you've felt before.
Besides electrifying sensations obtained, you will receive a bonus: you will release the suppressed emotions, old mental pain and any other blocks harmful.
5.ORGASME CLITORIDIENE
The clitoris is the only organ designed solely for pleasure, and orgasms are only achieved by stimulating its not called into doubt.
Clitoral orgasm is of several types and it lasts from several seconds to several minutes! Most times it can be achieved when the clitoris is massaged slightly, and when it is well lubricated.
6.ORGASME COMBINED
During a sexual act can never say exactly the type of stimulation that brought you into ecstasy whereas often experience orgasms combined. The combination encountered most often is between clitoridiene and the vaginal orgasms. It would, however, a great loss if it were the only combination possible.
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