How do you know that your friend is not trustworthy?

It is said that we choose friends on our own, so we should be very careful of the choices we make in this field. First we must ensure that we keep next to new people trust to help us in difficult moments and with whom to share the joys of life.

Trust is an essential thing in any relationship, especially in a friendly. Any man who is next in your beautiful moments and also sad moments, must be confident, understanding and above all, a reliable person.

To be sure your friends are exactly those people who speak up, look at these signs that may betray a false friend, a friend can not honor your trust and respect.

1. He spoke of evil


A true friend will not judge and will not ever talk bad about you. Even if not always agree with your views or even if not always share the same tastes on various activities, that does not mean you have the right to judge.
If you find that your friend talked bad about you it's time to cataloghezi it as an unreliable person and try to avoid it in future.

2. Is selfish


We all own a lower dose or more than selfishness, but we strive to not use it in front of friends. Think like a true friend will have to be willing to make sacrifices to help in difficult moments.
If a selfish person who always put himself in the forefront, never will be with you when you ask them, but only if you would have something to gain.

3. You can not rely on it


Your friend always late when you meet? Often forget to bring you the things which you have borrowed? It promises a lot but does nothing? Such behavior show that not one person you can rely on hard times.

You need to have almost resolute people who know how to honor promises, rather than ready to take to run when you need to face consequences of their actions.

4. Is coward


A person of faith means, first of all, a strong person. If your friend gives evidence of cowardice often means you will not be able to rely on it in the future. If you want to have a man next to you that you can help, you must first see if it is able to solve their problems and especially if he can-and carry out the responsibilities.

5. Humiliate you in public


I've shared your friend some humiliating experiences that you went and he set about to tell them the amuzandu when you are in a great circle of friends? You need to know a person that you put your trust will never tend to humiliate you. Do not expect things to worsen, but tries to break away from such people.

6. The chatterbox


Test your friend telling you a secret that you have not told anyone. Invent something and see if it is able to keep a secret. If in a few days your so-called secret came out means that your new friend is not exactly discreet person, where it can be inferred that does not deserve your trust.


True friendship is based on affection, trust and respect. No compromise when you choose your entourage. As long as you provide and respect other's wishes should you expect to be treated equally as such do not settle for less.

Create traditions for holiday!

Nothing wakes us more memories than a habit or a tradition that we have since childhood. And when we become adults, nothing can be more pleasant than to start our own tradition and see, over the years, turned into precious memories or traditions for our own children.

Nobody says it's necessary to have a family and two to three children that you can create your own holiday traditions of your family. Just to be you and your partner or yourself with your friends to create some holiday traditions.

The most important thing you will get spiritual satisfaction, but also unforgettable memories. Traditions for the holidays is a time to make them more solid foundation of our relationship (whether it comes to romantic relationships or friendship) and that of our family, creating at the same time, a framework of good things that look forward to we make with people you love. It is, if you will, as a safety net against bad things can happen and as a safety net against oblivion.

I wish that my children and grandchildren can say, over the years, they feel a need to do something together with their family-to go to carol, to make cakes, etc-just because they remember that when they were sausages we do together.

Make decorations together!

You could start by doing, in an afternoon with your family members, some ornaments for Christmas trees. There must not be some extraordinarily successful decorations or elaborate-the only things that know them today are from childhood are strings of beads-polishing, because this is not the goal. And if you have family and children or grandchildren, will be the more fun for little ones-and even you, although you might not want to admit it-will be proud when they hang on Christmas tree ornaments made them. In addition, the most successful would be to keep them, because over the years ... and will become more valuable, especially when skilled adults will not come to believe that a sense of color were so unusual.

Some traditional

Find a tradition in an area which you or the area in which your parents or grandparents and trying to recreate it wherever in the world you are. It will be an authentic tradition, that you will enjoy all. You can, for example, take a typical Romanian tradition at the party night before Christmas Eve with friends and walking the next day, every house in the village, shouting: "Good morning from Santa Christmas Eve." Although your neighbors might not appreciate the fact that you woke up just to play them and ask them (breads and apples, nothing else), friends and relatives will love to see you.

Out of the house!

Find an event that annually take place in your town. Go, for example, in a museum or a fair traditions or a concert should not be the same every year. You need to do something together and enjoy those moments!

Just for you two!

In the rush of Christmas preparations you remember to book at least several hours for you and your spouse. Take along something special, whether it comes to return a child walking into a toy store or going to the carol, whether it's just a night that will stay in the home and small-make gifts other than the you'll find under the tree-all is that you two to reconnect!

What you remember from your childhood? Have you kept any tradition?

Holidays without sex?

You can't because you're surrounded by friends and family, not allowed because bring bad luck, you have no time, because everybody wants something from you ...... How do you have sex on holidays?

Knowing that stress is quite high in this period, sex would be one of the preferred methods for relaxation. But, considering the constant bustle around you, sometimes you let yourself be easier to prey temptations. You need some good plans in place for that year will not pass without some of the most beautiful gift for holidays: your partner.

1. Wish List

Make a list of at least three things would you like to do together: 1. something you want to do with her, 2. something that she would do to you 3. something unique that you do together. Then set a date when you will put out all these things and organize your schedule so that you succeed. After all sex is an activity that takes time, so you should never exaggerate the impression that trying to make plans in advance. If your fantasies involve toys or sweets, do not leave your shopping on the last hundred meters!

2. Choosing appropriate

Christmas is going around loved ones, so it might have failed in terms of privacy. If you go to the mountains or out to dinner and book a private booth, you solved the problem, and satisfaction comes in the idea that you did something bizarre: sex in public space. But if you go to visit you or you will receive guests at home, we must act very discreetly and quickly. Hoped that she does not have a problem with sex "on the run", because obviously you could not start tantric rituals when there is the possibility of being caught. Make sure you lock the door of the room and the bed is not squeaky, even if in fact everyone will know what you have retired there. Although you may see smiles silky ... they will appreciate your discretion.

3. Inventing a sex code

When you wnat to talk about sex with your partner and can not because of other persons present nearby, you felt it began to make signs in the hope that at some point she will understand what you mean. If you hate to play them and occasionally mislead others, create your own sexual code. In this way you will understand exactly when, how and where you can meet to spend a few moments together. You will not bother anyone and everyone will be happy. The code may contain any terms apparently common, of whose join to indicate new meanings known only to you. It can be really funny at first.

4. A rule of Christmas: Love yourself!

You might have some sex, but is just as likely to stay on the outside ... In this case, do not despair, but be confident in the chances that you probably will bring the new year on sexually. Until then, the trust uses the advantage of having two hands long enough to touch your private areas ... In this case should not forget discretion. Although you would not have problems with creaky bad, there are enough chances to be caught while you declare love, that would be more embarrassing if you were discovered having sex with a woman.