Friday, January 22, 2010

Orgasm in women and men


Many say orgasm is great! Orgasm: peak of pleasure! Orgasm, a chimera! Orgasm change you! Orgasm, the key to happiness in couple! OK. Let's see though ... .... What is orgasm? A subjective perception of maximum intensity of sexual stimulation, expressed through a feeling of pleasure paraxistica.

A subjective perception ... ... .. which means that most times, these feelings are perceived orgasm associated particularly specific to each of us. All what is common is the combination of pleasure, ecstasy up .... each of us with their ways of reporting speech and especially representation of those felt in sexual intimacy with your beloved. For some it is the expression of love for each other. For others the confirmation of a successful sexual intercourse. For many, a goal in itself ... .... A standard .... One prize ... .. a ... .. a download pride ... etc.. Orgasm is experienced by a sensual full body with a lust overwhelming expression of unparalleled pleasures where time seems to have stopped his flight.

He has no connection with reproduction of the genital organs, perpetuating the species can be possible in the case of coplulari anorgasmice. Orgasm is the partners who love each other to experience a new type of special communication and fusion, fusion bodily and spiritual. The ecstasy that conveys, the two lose their self-identity, merging is, they become more than ever, a whole one all, one being.

They give off an energy around them and also are filled with that energy ... .. The state is an experienced outside somaticului, like a "trance lucid" for many. Others give way this state neconstientizand what happens, just feel and enjoy every moment. Laughing or crying sometimes including some women orgasm are just moments before the ecstasy experienced personal reactions. Spasms, moans ... crisparea psycho-somatic manifestations resembles orgasmic agony.

Orgasmic experience differ from one person to another, at the same time, the same person, the intensity of orgasm can be different depending on the circumstances, context, and especially according to the stages of life. Orgasm occurs both men and women and is an expression of physical pleasures of living a psychosomatic intense.Ia as a site of "blood" occurs after sexual excitation. Postorgasmic partners are covered by a total relaxation in somatic and psychological level (the two are "abandoned" to each other). Duration orgasm can vary between three and ten seconds in real time, while mentally, it can take forever or just for an instant.

Female orgasm can be triggered spontaneously when the male orgasm, but the two phenomena often do not coincide. While the male, orgasm already started can not be interrupted by any external intervention, either by their own will, she can "rate" orgasm. An unexpected noise, a state of tension, anxiety, change the pace of the partner or his position, suddenly a man ejaculation .... Etc ... are a few factors that can intervene. Psychic and somatic, the state "half satisfied and half frustrated" is felt as a state of muscle tension, nervousness, depressed mood, headaches. The act is seen as a missed note, a failure, an unpleasant experience ... orgasm.

Women have an orgasm either by clitoral stimulation or penetration and movements , in the first situation we obtain an intense orgasm, acute, "power" in the second situation is an orgasm "internal" deeper, hot , subtle, diffuse, mild. Most women can achieve orgasm both clitoral and vaginal.Exista dams, stimulation, voluptuous sensations are obtained only at the clitoris, orgasm itself realized only through this vaginala.In incentive is the difference between orgasm and juisare itself.

Often men think that is sufficient to penetrate the power and love, and if it does not react with sensuality, they think it's the relentless frigid. Please note: if the woman is totally frigid, certainly, and her lover is responsible. In such cases it is for them to find words warm and tender gestures that can open, consolations that emotion ... Few women reach orgasm just because of movements!

There are different ways subjective feeling of orgasm in women. Are women, especially for those inexperienced, living in a state of high arousal, with many pleasant sensations but without reaching an intense orgasm. Then there are women that sex generates a rapid growth state of excitability, feeling bound with a unique and intense orgasms. And are women who have multiple orgasms .... Of up to 6-7 successive orgasms.

In men, there can, in addition to delayed ejaculation, early or anejaculare with or without orgasm (situations I talked in another article), a state of increased excitability which ends with an intense orgasm and ejaculation abundance. Situation then most times no longer engage in sexual intercourse with another partner that night. There are men with repeated sexual intercourse during the same meeting. If their first orgasm is more intense, others are of lower intensity. Also the quantity of semen decreases with each report "completed" in parte. Ar men who can differentiate ejaculation orgasm, they can be sometimes more orgasms without ejaculating.

Achieving orgasm woman is strongly influenced by its ability to "let gone" for pleasure, for the abandonment of pleasure ... .. to answer the man in motion, giving to understand that verbal or nonverbal sexual act itself placere.Tendinta makes some women to "force permanently" get orgasm, risk often inhibit them psycho-sexual. The same result appears and if this pressure comes from the partner who "wants any" price as a partner to reach orgasm.

Orgasm is achieved more easily and quickly by women who know their own body better and not worry or feel embarrassed them and to live pleasure. Let's not forget that there are women for whom it is more important to "give back" orgasm than you have.

Ideal is full harmonization and "complicity" of the two sex partners. Important: the nature of the meeting and two sentiments, "quality" foreplay and ability "to giving" to each of the two partners: women and man. We ar so special and yet ... .. so alike that sometimes forget and mistake! look to us and makes mistakes and face the one that you or a loved.

The purpose of this article was simply an introduction to diverse problems of orgasm in the human being, the men and women, an invitation for retrieval of "scenarios" in our sexual behavior and why not?! An invitation to self-analysis and personal development "sexual" personal impetus for change and finding answers and solutions together.

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