Sexuality is 10% technique and 90% ambient

Between the daily bustle, stress and monotony of life of the couple, your libido has definitely suffered. Time to act! Learn how to awaken your senses and leave you as gone away for a sex life without problems!

Prepare decor
Red curtains and linen, lamps strategically positioned, scented candles, rose petals - here are the ingredients of a successful sexual life. If you have not yet convinced, was that sexuality is 10% technique and 90% atmosphere. So, try to apply the principles of Feng Shui and remember and essential flavors of rose, jasmine and ylang-ylang - are natural aphrodisiac.

Explore your body
If masturbation sound too hard, we will replace with one more appropriate: comfort. Yes, it has to do to awaken your senses and erogenous points. Apply your own body oil or perfumed moisturizer, a lubricant gel or fruit. Use them to help your partner to put your blood in motion and take you to the heights of pleasure!

Live your fantasies
On the sexual fantasies are "best friends", that helps you escape from the real world and enter a world where the only thing that matters is the pleasure. So why deny it? Get inside any character you want, imagine you all, everything is allowed!

Breathe
To get rid of stress but also to access the pleasure, learning to breathe correctly. With mouth open, breathing umflandu your abdomen slowly and deeply. You will help the senses, and activating microcirculation oxigenand erogenous zones. Then, when the pleasure starts to grow, breathing serves as accelerator, so do not hesitate to breathe rapidly and, why not, to mistake.

And don't think of anything!
Issues, thoughts, things that have to wait panic! Now is your moment and your partner, so you must focus only on pleasure. Think about just how to make you feel better and how to satisfy your partner.

How are you let gone away?

Women, men and oral sex. Like it or not?

How many men are willing to provide oral sex any time their partners? How many women meet their partners in this way, without feeling constrained? And especially, what experts say about our attitude for oral sex? Let's find out together!

Women

1. When offering
There are women who like to satisfy their partners so. But many are and do not accept oral sex, or that they do, but reluctantly. Or him. Well, when you receive such treatment, men want to see passion against women, pleasure, implication.

Certainly not a stone sheepfold which performs some mechanical movements. And women know this too well. So why accept to do something contrary to their wishes?

Sexologii say this is the result of uncertainty I feel towards the relationship that are involved, their feelings towards themselves and towards the partner. In addition, they think that if they will not do oral sex, your partner will find a mistress who offer him exactly what they want.

2. When receiving
Do not like to give, but not when it comes to receive oral sex, women are given in the wind. Even if I LOVE sensations caused, there is a very small percentage of women who will suggest or request directly to partner oral stimulation.

Why? We return again to the uncertainty, but this time the feeling has to do with their bodies, specifically the genital organs. Often conceal their nudity of their own love, what you talking about it sends exactly on the spot!

Men

1. When offering
How many men, so many ways. For some, the number one priority is oral sex, for others it is not that important. Some are absolutely crazy to offer him such a stimulating partner, instead atii not do before.

Statistics also show that there are men who refused to give oral sex partner, but at the same time have no problem doing any other women.

And last but not least, some men have a special sensitivity, invoking reasons such as smell, taste or simply the vulva, which prevents them from approaching the area.

2. When receiving
Well, it is the men they love most. Would not have much to say, extremely rare because a man refused a woman willing to provide oral stimulation.

Moreover, they are those who request it and when they want, and do they do quite often, considering oral sex cause of immediate assessment of a relationship.

Orgasm in women and men

Many say orgasm is great! Orgasm: peak of pleasure! Orgasm, a chimera! Orgasm change you! Orgasm, the key to happiness in couple! OK. Let's see though ... .... What is orgasm? A subjective perception of maximum intensity of sexual stimulation, expressed through a feeling of pleasure paraxistica.

A subjective perception ... ... .. which means that most times, these feelings are perceived orgasm associated particularly specific to each of us. All what is common is the combination of pleasure, ecstasy up .... each of us with their ways of reporting speech and especially representation of those felt in sexual intimacy with your beloved. For some it is the expression of love for each other. For others the confirmation of a successful sexual intercourse. For many, a goal in itself ... .... A standard .... One prize ... .. a ... .. a download pride ... etc.. Orgasm is experienced by a sensual full body with a lust overwhelming expression of unparalleled pleasures where time seems to have stopped his flight.

He has no connection with reproduction of the genital organs, perpetuating the species can be possible in the case of coplulari anorgasmice. Orgasm is the partners who love each other to experience a new type of special communication and fusion, fusion bodily and spiritual. The ecstasy that conveys, the two lose their self-identity, merging is, they become more than ever, a whole one all, one being.

They give off an energy around them and also are filled with that energy ... .. The state is an experienced outside somaticului, like a "trance lucid" for many. Others give way this state neconstientizand what happens, just feel and enjoy every moment. Laughing or crying sometimes including some women orgasm are just moments before the ecstasy experienced personal reactions. Spasms, moans ... crisparea psycho-somatic manifestations resembles orgasmic agony.

Orgasmic experience differ from one person to another, at the same time, the same person, the intensity of orgasm can be different depending on the circumstances, context, and especially according to the stages of life. Orgasm occurs both men and women and is an expression of physical pleasures of living a psychosomatic intense.Ia as a site of "blood" occurs after sexual excitation. Postorgasmic partners are covered by a total relaxation in somatic and psychological level (the two are "abandoned" to each other). Duration orgasm can vary between three and ten seconds in real time, while mentally, it can take forever or just for an instant.

Female orgasm can be triggered spontaneously when the male orgasm, but the two phenomena often do not coincide. While the male, orgasm already started can not be interrupted by any external intervention, either by their own will, she can "rate" orgasm. An unexpected noise, a state of tension, anxiety, change the pace of the partner or his position, suddenly a man ejaculation .... Etc ... are a few factors that can intervene. Psychic and somatic, the state "half satisfied and half frustrated" is felt as a state of muscle tension, nervousness, depressed mood, headaches. The act is seen as a missed note, a failure, an unpleasant experience ... orgasm.

Women have an orgasm either by clitoral stimulation or penetration and movements , in the first situation we obtain an intense orgasm, acute, "power" in the second situation is an orgasm "internal" deeper, hot , subtle, diffuse, mild. Most women can achieve orgasm both clitoral and vaginal.Exista dams, stimulation, voluptuous sensations are obtained only at the clitoris, orgasm itself realized only through this vaginala.In incentive is the difference between orgasm and juisare itself.

Often men think that is sufficient to penetrate the power and love, and if it does not react with sensuality, they think it's the relentless frigid. Please note: if the woman is totally frigid, certainly, and her lover is responsible. In such cases it is for them to find words warm and tender gestures that can open, consolations that emotion ... Few women reach orgasm just because of movements!

There are different ways subjective feeling of orgasm in women. Are women, especially for those inexperienced, living in a state of high arousal, with many pleasant sensations but without reaching an intense orgasm. Then there are women that sex generates a rapid growth state of excitability, feeling bound with a unique and intense orgasms. And are women who have multiple orgasms .... Of up to 6-7 successive orgasms.

In men, there can, in addition to delayed ejaculation, early or anejaculare with or without orgasm (situations I talked in another article), a state of increased excitability which ends with an intense orgasm and ejaculation abundance. Situation then most times no longer engage in sexual intercourse with another partner that night. There are men with repeated sexual intercourse during the same meeting. If their first orgasm is more intense, others are of lower intensity. Also the quantity of semen decreases with each report "completed" in parte. Ar men who can differentiate ejaculation orgasm, they can be sometimes more orgasms without ejaculating.

Achieving orgasm woman is strongly influenced by its ability to "let gone" for pleasure, for the abandonment of pleasure ... .. to answer the man in motion, giving to understand that verbal or nonverbal sexual act itself placere.Tendinta makes some women to "force permanently" get orgasm, risk often inhibit them psycho-sexual. The same result appears and if this pressure comes from the partner who "wants any" price as a partner to reach orgasm.

Orgasm is achieved more easily and quickly by women who know their own body better and not worry or feel embarrassed them and to live pleasure. Let's not forget that there are women for whom it is more important to "give back" orgasm than you have.

Ideal is full harmonization and "complicity" of the two sex partners. Important: the nature of the meeting and two sentiments, "quality" foreplay and ability "to giving" to each of the two partners: women and man. We ar so special and yet ... .. so alike that sometimes forget and mistake! look to us and makes mistakes and face the one that you or a loved.

The purpose of this article was simply an introduction to diverse problems of orgasm in the human being, the men and women, an invitation for retrieval of "scenarios" in our sexual behavior and why not?! An invitation to self-analysis and personal development "sexual" personal impetus for change and finding answers and solutions together.

U Spot, the new hot center of sex

G Spot, A Spot, and now U Spot. This is the recent discovery of sexology, which also meant a "hotbed of pleasure" on the woman's body.

Female genitals are extremely sensitive to touch, but to get maximum pleasure must be stimulated, especially in certain areas. So, over time, sex experts have targeted and called with one letter of the alphabet each boiling points. And then they made the point and one user manual for any of the representatives of hard sex, not to miss the exam for material "Orgasm".

Keeping our optimism and faith that soon we will be able to say the whole alphabet, guiding us after the woman's intimate, today we discussed the U Spot. For handling of A Spot to G sSpot and not transformed the men in real gods of sex, specialists have found a little part of the woman's body which they say that, once stimulated, it will provide waves of pleasure.

Where is the U?

The area around the urinary hole, which many inexperienced men confuse it with the vaginal opening is the area in question. Strong feelings of pleasure are not present in all women, but one can say with certainty that the hole is not only for urinating on here since there is female ejaculation.

Glands surrounding the female urethra are similar to the male who is known as determining the sensitivity in a certain area. Men can stimulate U Spot with fingers or during oral sex.

G Spot

Prior to the discovery of U Spot, the most famous location on body map of a woman was the G Spot. It is 3-5 inches deep, in front of the vagina and on how small it is, on so large they are polemics generated: while some doctors say is a real volcano of pleasure for women, others believe that he does not exist.

A Spot

Located on the anterior wall of the vagina, about halfway between the G and cervix, A Spot is absolutely accidental discovery of a sex therapist in Malaysia. Also called the AFE (Anterior Fornix Erogenous), about it says that, when stimulated properly, ensure lubrication of the vagina and can generate an intense orgasm and ... instantly!

5 things to avoid in bed - for men and women

The atmosphere is good and both will be ready for a night of love: when you're about to float to the bed partner tells you "I'm sleeping!". It was really your fault? Maybe! I completed a list of things you need to avoid them in bed.

For men:

1) Poor hygiene: It is certainly the most important aspect. If you do not smell good when you're in bed, chances to get out quickly are high. Women have different preferences, but good hygiene is something that all women consider it mandatory for men. So take care that it is the first step you have to do it every time.

2) To talk about work: If you talk about work, might as your partner to lose any mood. Do not take never work with you to bed even if we work together.

3) Lack of prelude: Sex is not mechanical! Unlike men, emotional side of sex is very important for women. If you want to penetrate quickly, without little foreplay she could live an unpleasant experience. Build passion, do not forget to caress and a kiss and just then one of them and pleasure guaranteed.

4) Do not be too soft bed: Many women have complained that their partners are not tough, not to hurt them. If you are a gentle and sensual love is good, but if you can become a little more aggressive during sex would be ideal.

5) Do not sleep immediately after sex: This is a common mistake made by men. If you go to sleep immediately after a game of sex, your woman might feel used. Moments after sex are very important for your partner and it is good to show affection in those moments.

For women:

1) Shyness: Some women can not enjoy a game of love because they are very ashamed of their bodies. In some cases, even if one partner calm, women feel embarrassed. What women must realize is that sex is explained as a complete state of liberation and freedom. If you're shy, you limit your pleasure and partner.

2) To appear disinterested: This state is the most annoying of men. To make love with someone who seems disinterested and without mood is not at all pleasant. You better not have sex unless you want. It's good to make friends to understand that better delayed. But if possible, forget everything you worried and you hand a little fun.

3) Do not try to instructs a man in the art of sex: The last place where a man wants to hear sexual advice would be even during sex. If you start to give him suggestions, have a good chance to offend him and believe that they did know. Rather than stop him for a little lesson, well you guide your hands and feet. If you start to do well, you can Gemi them and whispering and be sure to get it.

4) Initiative: Men usually go all the hard work while women sit back and enjoy large. But men love women who take control. Try to get an attitude and you see your partner's reaction.

5) Lack of response: Seriously, men like to play two. When a woman does absolutely nothing before they get in bed, man will be very hard to relax. Men love to be seduced, that, etc., before making love. So you might begin sometime with a striptease.

Aphrodisiacs and sexual desire myth.

Even if temperatures drop, your libido should not hibernate! For hot nights, watch what you 'plate!

What are aphrodisiacs?

# Chocolate
Chocolate is a delight for all senses as favors secretion of endorphins, hormones of pleasure. Eat a few boxes every day, for breakfast, betting on dark chocolate, because cocoa is one that helps us be more sensual.

# Champagne

Why do men always ask you to drink a cup of champagne at the bar? They understand: dezinhiba champagne, just as any alcohol. Drink in moderation, unless you want to get in bed with any unknown!

# Spices

Almost all spices are stimulants of sexual function due to their vasodilator effect. The most effective are: pepper, parsley, coriander, saffron, curry, thyme, ginger and ginseng. They work great both in women as in men.

Do not swallow any!

Charlatans in this field are numerous! So, opt for natural products and avoid strange mixtures or preparations of miraculous neighbor neighborhood, which promises you eternal love. It would be a shame to poison you ...

Rely on ritual

What matters in fact, more than diet, is the art of making love. Be romantic, prepare dinner at candlelight, close the TV and put a beautiful background music. Hot effect guaranteed!