Orgasm in women and men

Many say orgasm is great! Orgasm: peak of pleasure! Orgasm, a chimera! Orgasm change you! Orgasm, the key to happiness in couple! OK. Let's see though ... .... What is orgasm? A subjective perception of maximum intensity of sexual stimulation, expressed through a feeling of pleasure paraxistica.

A subjective perception ... ... .. which means that most times, these feelings are perceived orgasm associated particularly specific to each of us. All what is common is the combination of pleasure, ecstasy up .... each of us with their ways of reporting speech and especially representation of those felt in sexual intimacy with your beloved. For some it is the expression of love for each other. For others the confirmation of a successful sexual intercourse. For many, a goal in itself ... .... A standard .... One prize ... .. a ... .. a download pride ... etc.. Orgasm is experienced by a sensual full body with a lust overwhelming expression of unparalleled pleasures where time seems to have stopped his flight.

He has no connection with reproduction of the genital organs, perpetuating the species can be possible in the case of coplulari anorgasmice. Orgasm is the partners who love each other to experience a new type of special communication and fusion, fusion bodily and spiritual. The ecstasy that conveys, the two lose their self-identity, merging is, they become more than ever, a whole one all, one being.

They give off an energy around them and also are filled with that energy ... .. The state is an experienced outside somaticului, like a "trance lucid" for many. Others give way this state neconstientizand what happens, just feel and enjoy every moment. Laughing or crying sometimes including some women orgasm are just moments before the ecstasy experienced personal reactions. Spasms, moans ... crisparea psycho-somatic manifestations resembles orgasmic agony.

Orgasmic experience differ from one person to another, at the same time, the same person, the intensity of orgasm can be different depending on the circumstances, context, and especially according to the stages of life. Orgasm occurs both men and women and is an expression of physical pleasures of living a psychosomatic intense.Ia as a site of "blood" occurs after sexual excitation. Postorgasmic partners are covered by a total relaxation in somatic and psychological level (the two are "abandoned" to each other). Duration orgasm can vary between three and ten seconds in real time, while mentally, it can take forever or just for an instant.

Female orgasm can be triggered spontaneously when the male orgasm, but the two phenomena often do not coincide. While the male, orgasm already started can not be interrupted by any external intervention, either by their own will, she can "rate" orgasm. An unexpected noise, a state of tension, anxiety, change the pace of the partner or his position, suddenly a man ejaculation .... Etc ... are a few factors that can intervene. Psychic and somatic, the state "half satisfied and half frustrated" is felt as a state of muscle tension, nervousness, depressed mood, headaches. The act is seen as a missed note, a failure, an unpleasant experience ... orgasm.

Women have an orgasm either by clitoral stimulation or penetration and movements , in the first situation we obtain an intense orgasm, acute, "power" in the second situation is an orgasm "internal" deeper, hot , subtle, diffuse, mild. Most women can achieve orgasm both clitoral and vaginal.Exista dams, stimulation, voluptuous sensations are obtained only at the clitoris, orgasm itself realized only through this vaginala.In incentive is the difference between orgasm and juisare itself.

Often men think that is sufficient to penetrate the power and love, and if it does not react with sensuality, they think it's the relentless frigid. Please note: if the woman is totally frigid, certainly, and her lover is responsible. In such cases it is for them to find words warm and tender gestures that can open, consolations that emotion ... Few women reach orgasm just because of movements!

There are different ways subjective feeling of orgasm in women. Are women, especially for those inexperienced, living in a state of high arousal, with many pleasant sensations but without reaching an intense orgasm. Then there are women that sex generates a rapid growth state of excitability, feeling bound with a unique and intense orgasms. And are women who have multiple orgasms .... Of up to 6-7 successive orgasms.

In men, there can, in addition to delayed ejaculation, early or anejaculare with or without orgasm (situations I talked in another article), a state of increased excitability which ends with an intense orgasm and ejaculation abundance. Situation then most times no longer engage in sexual intercourse with another partner that night. There are men with repeated sexual intercourse during the same meeting. If their first orgasm is more intense, others are of lower intensity. Also the quantity of semen decreases with each report "completed" in parte. Ar men who can differentiate ejaculation orgasm, they can be sometimes more orgasms without ejaculating.

Achieving orgasm woman is strongly influenced by its ability to "let gone" for pleasure, for the abandonment of pleasure ... .. to answer the man in motion, giving to understand that verbal or nonverbal sexual act itself placere.Tendinta makes some women to "force permanently" get orgasm, risk often inhibit them psycho-sexual. The same result appears and if this pressure comes from the partner who "wants any" price as a partner to reach orgasm.

Orgasm is achieved more easily and quickly by women who know their own body better and not worry or feel embarrassed them and to live pleasure. Let's not forget that there are women for whom it is more important to "give back" orgasm than you have.

Ideal is full harmonization and "complicity" of the two sex partners. Important: the nature of the meeting and two sentiments, "quality" foreplay and ability "to giving" to each of the two partners: women and man. We ar so special and yet ... .. so alike that sometimes forget and mistake! look to us and makes mistakes and face the one that you or a loved.

The purpose of this article was simply an introduction to diverse problems of orgasm in the human being, the men and women, an invitation for retrieval of "scenarios" in our sexual behavior and why not?! An invitation to self-analysis and personal development "sexual" personal impetus for change and finding answers and solutions together.

Do you dare?

Men think about perverse sex frequently, but rarely they put it in practice. The reasons are multiple and essentially concerns the structure of the male, slow in adapting to changes and eager heading under strict control to maintain a routine fact reached. So what's all this, why so many headaches? The classic example of sex is kinky sex orgy.

Once deployed, can cause real nightmares or trauma, but there are enough people who, fed up with the same ritual in the bedroom, stretch out in this way. The procedure is privileged and desired by men because it is promoted in magazines and porn and consumers do not bother than to imitate, not to train and imagination or to take its precious time with a careful and obviously useful documentation.

We have news and the other side of the ring. The news that actually shook the ground is that the male world including women channel their thoughts (oooo! Yes, yes!) Toward kinky sex. The study conducted on a representative sample of women (the number in 2000 demonstrates that 90% of them reject the subject, 70% would be tempted to try something kinky, and 21.5% felt very excited at the prospect of sexual orgies.

Interestingly, if for a couple welded dream can come true and if there are possibilities to apply a different kind of kinky sex, cleaner, more coercive, more elaborate and more fun, therefore less traumatic. A tip for starters: do not call kinky sex altfeldecit in a classic manner, think the new approach as a fun, a string of nonsense, and not as a great perversion.

So, here are a few solutions Demonstration applicable. In support of their Fri. including frank statements, without irony, as women who wanted to share their experience erotic.

DSSM

Initials mean: domination, bondage, submission and a bit of masochism, all managed, of course, in doses ingested. Every man wants at some point that his sexual life to improve and this means primarily run routine, finding an unusual ingredient that is run by the erotic act in a charming, warm and intacarat.

Submission on sex is definitely something exciting and is a form of non-traditional sex. Women can thus be encouraged to perceive as objects of desire, of pleasure and a spiral pseudosclavie and some become a part of a game result of this. There are, of course, the newcomers feel overwhelmed erotica.

It comes with the feeling of the trap, which many women find him very exciting. A warning needed! It should be borne in mind that any gesture made brutally intimate may cause serious disturbances. It is therefore appropriate to consider some time, more specifically sexual moment of opening, very important in the mentality of individuals.

To prevents accidents, differences of opinions, feelings confused, have chosen the perfect moment to improve the sexual practices of a perverse type. We do the turn: I dominate him and then change it. I like feeling that can do anything with me and I have no power to stop him. It's about confidence here, and that is sexy, told us Dera, 26, a social worker.

At the beginning:

While doing your usual crap use your hands to keep them in the vent on its overhead. If you feel that he liked (you can ask) as you did the first step in the future dare more. Choose a tie, a silk scarf or a dress. Using a weak tie knots and give your imagination free vent. Overwhelms your partner more slowly than in the case of a classic sexual act.

At one point beating can pigment things, because this type of return is very exciting. How hard to be hand and place its application depends on each person. This practice is directly related to feelings of pride and can be reached even to violence. Start with a light hand. If you ride, consider it as a tacit approval.

In time:

Kinky sex can be dangerous if practiced by someone inexperienced and too eager. It is better to be prepared with some knowledge, so that no one have to suffer. Before proceeding with the facts, cadets must agree on a safe word, to notify you each time you feel that is enough. He says it can not be a part of fantasy. Make sure that the words to finalize fantasy is something totally out of context, such as peace, rest, time-out etc..

Motor, Action

Although this practice is known, few women (15% of survey's) and were immortalized on film oddities of the bedroom, probably from fear and suspicion towards the partner. Countless stories that made round the world, about the events and similar situations, is an extra excuse to avoid this kind of application.

Tip: even if the partner is cooperative, give the box immediately after you finish or destroy it after you watched it enough fun. If he likes to keep some things hidden in a separate box away from other films.

At the beginning:

Uses the camera only with the consent of your partner to avoid possible arguments and verbal assaults. You can reach a joint solution and the beginning you choose a small size device, less intimidating for beginners. That would seem to not exist.

While

Sex on film is captured beautifully by experienced, but may be hard to watch. Never use more light, creating shadows and are simply unattractive. Furthermore, you are not on a plateau of shooting, but in a home where there is true intimacy. In this video game, virtually all women find their satisfaction that are a lot of sounds that excite them, and men are very visually stimulated.

Carmen, 30, estate agent: my beloved camera connects directly to TV, record without action. We are curious to look at us, caught in the whirlpool of passion. Feelings of affiliation and dominance are amazing, and it seems that we are both of the protagonists of filmporno, which greatly enhances both carrying foreplay, as well as the end of deliberately delay, giving a new face orgasm.

A role, a stage

Masks and games company are far more easy than experiment unastfel difficult for any man who respects. Most women think it's needed are a strong suspension of disbelief and that is not really pleasant experience, many couples known (chief secretary, teacher and student, stripper-customer, etc.). Are played from the idea that someone is in control and the other is at his mercy.

This gives a strong impetus, including normal relations, and enables women and men alike to manage fantasies, so that you do not feel any discomfort and vulnerability.

At the beginning:

Buy-and partner a sexy outfit that will make them feel strong and clear siren crazy. For a flicker of emotion in public, go to a club. Arrived at a difference of 20 minutes one another and trying to hang, pretending you do not know her. If you can invented a scenario, the better.

Thus, to be more fun, you can choose to have other names, occupations, another past. Have you always wanted to have a strong impact of foreign women? Now you can have, because there is something exciting to the public to reveal your sexuality.

In time:

Grab tricks in clubs. Wears clothes that she did not give up maivazut and another perfume that sense of smell is closely linked to memory and you want her to temporarily forget who you are. Wants you to get euphoric, not hysteria. It is appropriate to laugh the situation, but is a better idea to display your exciting and sexy. If, for example, work in sales, plays a simple traveler who goes on a visit to a poor housewives. Try not to propose an Oscar in your career, but a great game of sex with your girlfriend.

Mary, teacher, 31 years: It started as a joke. Both chuckle when we arranged a meeting in a bar, as if it was for the first time that we saw. When I realized how much change the dynamics of the default scenario in November, we have prepared themselves for one of the most memorable sex parties we ever had.

I always wanted to be a tease capricious, but I met very early sutetul pair. Role allowed me to reveal another side of me, which we enjoyed both. Now we can call on that woman inside my light schedule after almost a month.