How to avoid compromises in life

Desires, ideals and our goals in life are often marred by compromises. Whether I was disappointed and not put price on personal happiness, whether we want very much a work and do anything to meet us, each of us choose a time in life to make a compromise.

Where to go? In a life half lived, regret and all questions that begin with "what would have happened if ... Well, if I compromise? ". Eventually what we choose to indulge in a situation where we do not like, why compromise when you do not put price on benefits and what can we do to not let us controlled by them? The answer to these questions and more find reading to as how to prevent compromises to affect your life in a negative way.


Reasons leading to compromises

The reasons why we choose to compromise life are endless. But some of them are valid for each of us. What is it?

• Wish to assert fast
• Vanity
• Cowardice
• Feeling of inferiority
• Past disappointments
• Convenience
• Fear of loneliness
• Mercy


Factors that facilitate compromises

At one point, with these reasons that dwell in all of us, juggles external factors and so we come to surrender to the pressure. What are the most common external factors?

• Family
• Antourage
• Lover

How to avoid these compromises?



1. Learning the usefulness of "no". Many times we are afraid to say "no", the fear was not upset anyone. But there are cases in which the "no" is imperative to not fall into the trap of compromise. If not used to saying 'no' when you are asked something, think: "If somebody says I throw in the well, say yes?" Moreover, if you choose to answer "yes" to all favors you are asking, not only do you multiply the number of requests and that's because you have earned the reputation of "the man who does not deny anything.

2. To learn to feel guilty. Whether you upset my mother, have you argued with boyfriend / girlfriend or with friends, upload your consciousness with no qualms, especially if you know you were right. Stop reproaches and guilt feeling.

If you continue to feel bad for everything you do, you risk that others consider you a weak person and easy to handle, knowing your weak point. Better yet, keep up the position when you know you're right and not to give impulse to say: "Well, be you, just because you tired to argue.

3. Learning to be motivated. Many times we get to make compromises and I let others lead us life only because we do not feel motivated. Find your goals and try to follow. Do not feel discouraged when you need to make a change and not run of the unknown.

4. Learning to be mature. We want to have everything and not accept the concessions. But in reality things are not so. We can not have everything and must learn to resign ourselves with this thought. Better yet, give evidence of maturity, make the difference between attainable and the unattainable things and try to follow only those who know that they can perform.

5. Learning to be courageous. Stop the lead of fear. As a powerful tool of compromises, by fear, do not just to facilitate their installation. Do not let down with fear and failure. Learn to get up and go again when obstacle in life trying to destroy you. Think about it: "What can not kill me, makes me stronger". Find your strength as inner and always go with your head up and eyes forward on the road of life.